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quinnox

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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) quinnox Feb 2014 OP
Now that it's a color, I prefer to be called "privileged". 11 Bravo Feb 2014 #1
As you should. Thank you. ret5hd Feb 2014 #2
Fish-belly white for me. FSogol Feb 2014 #9
Well I am white able bodies straight guy in top half of income Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #20
No you aren't. You are not the 1% and definitely not the 0.01%. n/t Cleita Feb 2014 #27
I have been informed in no less than 20 threads this week Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #33
If you are, mazel tov, but there will always be someone more privileged and that can change. Cleita Feb 2014 #37
Unless we eventually breed ourselves into one race, as long as we have eyes... phleshdef Feb 2014 #3
Genetically, I don't think we can do that. Cleita Feb 2014 #36
I think we hypothetically could. I doubt it will ever happen because of our global breeding habits. phleshdef Feb 2014 #46
we could if there was a major catastrophe quinnox Feb 2014 #48
That's because back in the stone age, people who had characteristics that fit into the landscape Cleita Feb 2014 #49
They didn't always wipe out everyone that wasn't them though. phleshdef Feb 2014 #55
I think this is what I said. Cleita Feb 2014 #58
Right on. phleshdef Feb 2014 #62
That's what the Rethugs would want, so they can pretend people aren't treated differently pnwmom Feb 2014 #4
Amazing that some here share the same views BainsBane Feb 2014 #74
Those distinctions won't go away rrneck Feb 2014 #5
India has quite a distribution of "colors" -- but I doubt it is a racial utopia. FarCenter Feb 2014 #138
That's true. nt rrneck Feb 2014 #141
Color blindness is a form of racism gollygee Feb 2014 #6
Isn't that debatable though? quinnox Feb 2014 #10
That's a misinterpretation of MLK gollygee Feb 2014 #12
well, to me it seems debatable quinnox Feb 2014 #16
We are no where near that ideal society gollygee Feb 2014 #21
the key to getting there is in not ignoring how far we have to go. bettyellen Feb 2014 #155
King spoke of how someone is judged Gman Feb 2014 #17
yep, judging not by color of skin quinnox Feb 2014 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author RobinA Feb 2014 #18
Ooops RobinA Feb 2014 #19
Don't make me whip out the white privilege bingo chart MrScorpio Feb 2014 #26
LOL! They still don't get it. n/t Cleita Feb 2014 #28
Apparently it's not good enough not to care about anyone's race, and to treat everyone the same Nye Bevan Feb 2014 #38
you have failed and must now report to local government camp #472A quinnox Feb 2014 #42
Having friends of several races and treating them the same doesn't make you "color blind" gollygee Feb 2014 #45
I think it depends on the context of "color blind". phleshdef Feb 2014 #50
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2014 #51
I think this is a grey area. JoePhilly Feb 2014 #7
I always resented Hispanic since the day some Wasp (oops, should I have said that?) Cleita Feb 2014 #8
Isn't Hispania what the Romans called the Iberian Penisula? n/t FSogol Feb 2014 #11
One of the Caribbean islands was called that during the days of colonization. Cleita Feb 2014 #14
Yes it was. Democracyinkind Feb 2014 #90
I know. Owned by the Dominican Republic, IIRC. n/t FSogol Feb 2014 #93
No, it is the island that contains both the Dominican Republic and Haiti BainsBane Feb 2014 #128
Right. Democracyinkind Feb 2014 #144
I get it now. Words, Autumn Feb 2014 #13
Me neither unless they are used in an accusatory way. Cleita Feb 2014 #23
lol quinnox Feb 2014 #29
Not to worry. Cleita Feb 2014 #75
We need a good discussion on the topic of words. The same word can be used in many rhett o rick Feb 2014 #134
Oh,yeah, that's just what we need ...... oldhippie Feb 2014 #154
You also can't say "that Blonde lady who works at the cafe" Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #15
I was going to ask about gender terms too, actually quinnox Feb 2014 #24
I don't have any problem with describing people by hair color and height or weight. Cleita Feb 2014 #25
Depends on who's doin' the referrin', know'm say'n? Iggo Feb 2014 #30
lol quinnox Feb 2014 #31
Nah, that was my white-boy drawl. Iggo Feb 2014 #32
lol quinnox Feb 2014 #34
Sling blade. Mmhmmm. Pretzel_Warrior Feb 2014 #39
You can't eliminate racism by pretending the cultural concept of races doesn't exist. NT Adrahil Feb 2014 #35
Races don't exist actually. We are all the same species. Cleita Feb 2014 #41
Yes, of course, that's why I said "cultural concept of race" Adrahil Feb 2014 #69
Yes you are correct. Cleita Feb 2014 #72
Polar bears, brown bears, and black bears are actually different species FarCenter Feb 2014 #136
"Roughly equivalent" isnt a very scientific term. IMO there are either one race or as many races as rhett o rick Feb 2014 #159
Subspecies emerge when geographically isolated breeding populations evolve differently FarCenter Feb 2014 #160
If they "can be" then why havent they? I am guessing that the "well-defined groups" you refer to rhett o rick Feb 2014 #161
It's very easy for some to claim that skin sufrommich Feb 2014 #54
+1 gollygee Feb 2014 #57
Well said. NT Adrahil Feb 2014 #70
+1000 kwassa Feb 2014 #98
+1! n/t fishwax Feb 2014 #122
Yea, there are different types of racism. Some racism is purely based on "culturalism". phleshdef Feb 2014 #67
Does the census have a check box for sexual orientation? Nye Bevan Feb 2014 #40
They finally got around to putting a check box in there for mixed races. Cleita Feb 2014 #43
Absolutely. KamaAina Feb 2014 #44
"hispanic" or "latino" are not colors or races for that matter. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Feb 2014 #47
Really. People don't get that. Cleita Feb 2014 #53
Words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm reformist2 Feb 2014 #52
Depeche Mode quinnox Feb 2014 #56
yes! only a few places race needs to be considered to help fix the problems caused by segregation. Sunlei Feb 2014 #59
I don't think we should ignore our differences... LanternWaste Feb 2014 #60
No. n/t Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #61
Did it occur to you that a bunch of white people sitting around talking about BainsBane Feb 2014 #63
Damn, your filter is so narrow-minded and distorted, you see everything in skewed terms quinnox Feb 2014 #65
How is it skewed? BainsBane Feb 2014 #66
"My business" is none of your business quinnox Feb 2014 #68
You have posted in the middle of GD BainsBane Feb 2014 #73
Go back to your little gated HOF community where no one will Cleita Feb 2014 #76
and I am expressing those views right now BainsBane Feb 2014 #85
And you have a right to. So express them with courtesy and stop demanding Cleita Feb 2014 #86
Asking a question is not a demand BainsBane Feb 2014 #87
You chose to create a woman's quarter but apparently it's not big enough for you. Cleita Feb 2014 #89
I wasn't even on DU when that group was created BainsBane Feb 2014 #91
But you joined it willingly. No one shoved you in there. Cleita Feb 2014 #95
I've never posted in HoF, and I totally agree with Bainsbane. kwassa Feb 2014 #102
Good. Agree with that person. I don't. Cleita Feb 2014 #106
Hey! It's the twisty word game! "the Big House" a term referring to the mater's house under slavery! FSogol Feb 2014 #97
No, you are thinking of drawn and quartered BainsBane Feb 2014 #101
No, your concerns are fine, but you are exaggerating terms too far to take offense against FSogol Feb 2014 #108
The person explicitly referenced slavery. BainsBane Feb 2014 #112
In this thread? Not that I see. n/t FSogol Feb 2014 #114
No, I didn't say it was in this thread BainsBane Feb 2014 #118
Wow. Go back to your little gated HOF community? That's a horrible thing to say. bravenak Feb 2014 #92
Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #96
Are you telling me to stay out of the discussion, now? bravenak Feb 2014 #99
I'm warning you to stay out for your own good, but if you want to Cleita Feb 2014 #104
I live in a snake pit called the USA. And I'm not your guest, hun, open forum and all. bravenak Feb 2014 #111
Fine. But whatever issues I have with BB have nothing to do with you. Cleita Feb 2014 #115
It's very noticeable and you basically told me to STFU. bravenak Feb 2014 #121
I think we should leave the snakes to their pit aka this thread Number23 Feb 2014 #163
Yes, yes, let us go. bravenak Feb 2014 #164
Don't tell us who to respond to. If you don't like downtown ...... kwassa Feb 2014 #105
... Cleita Feb 2014 #107
have i given you a hug of late.....? this is what i am hearin' seabeyond Feb 2014 #147
Yes, I do need a hug now. bravenak Feb 2014 #149
nah.... i luvs my gd. has been "my" place since 2004. seabeyond Feb 2014 #151
I like GD too. bravenak Feb 2014 #152
Three bear hug! JustAnotherGen Feb 2014 #156
Yay! bravenak Feb 2014 #157
There's a thread about you over there Capt. Obvious Feb 2014 #123
ya, i saw. i couldnt believe someone was all... downtowning it, and big housing it. funny, huh? seabeyond Feb 2014 #148
I'm sorry, but that's just way out of line. MineralMan Feb 2014 #142
bah hahaha. i really did not think this was real. oh, all the chuckles i missed on du today. clieta? seabeyond Feb 2014 #146
Newsflash - No one has to answer to you quinnox Feb 2014 #77
I'm terribly sorry BainsBane Feb 2014 #83
You tell him/her they have no right to be judgmental while you are being judgmental. nt 1awake Feb 2014 #79
Do you get the part about sitting in judgement of what people of color call themselves? BainsBane Feb 2014 #80
Where did he/she say that? 1awake Feb 2014 #82
Those are terms people of color self identify with BainsBane Feb 2014 #84
The only person saying that is YOU... what aren't you getting?? 1awake Feb 2014 #100
I also agree with the fact that colorblindness is bull. bravenak Feb 2014 #103
I agree because at this time it is impossible. nt 1awake Feb 2014 #109
well, I will back up bainsbane on that. kwassa Feb 2014 #110
I am in full agreement with that. 1awake Feb 2014 #119
This is why the term "colorblindness" can be seen as offensive. kwassa Feb 2014 #126
Agreed 1awake Feb 2014 #133
Yes, It Did RobinA Feb 2014 #125
Jury results: demmiblue Feb 2014 #137
Oh, thanks. BainsBane Feb 2014 #150
Simply put: Juror #6 gets it. Number23 Feb 2014 #162
dammit quinnox Cali_Democrat Feb 2014 #64
LOL. this neoliberal pretense of color blindness, when indeed color determines some really La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2014 #71
+1000 Baitball Blogger Feb 2014 #81
+1 n/t Gormy Cuss Feb 2014 #88
+100,000 kwassa Feb 2014 #116
Yes indeed nt fishwax Feb 2014 #130
Could be offensive rodroc Feb 2014 #78
Maybe you should include black people in this discussion. bravenak Feb 2014 #94
Several black members already are participating in this thread. eom. Cleita Feb 2014 #113
Didn't you tell me to stay out of the big house? bravenak Feb 2014 #117
LOL! kwassa Feb 2014 #129
You're welcome in the women's quarters anytime BainsBane Feb 2014 #131
THANK YOU!! bravenak Feb 2014 #135
I may not be a "good person" of GD ... etherealtruth Feb 2014 #153
I do too. bravenak Feb 2014 #158
Love your posts GeoWilliam750 Mar 2014 #168
Yes, those are my babies. bravenak Mar 2014 #169
Color terms should be totally embraced, not dropped. kwassa Feb 2014 #120
"Some people would like them dropped because such discussion makes them uncomfortable." ScreamingMeemie Feb 2014 #124
So much this. nt sufrommich Feb 2014 #127
+100,000 n/t wryter2000 Feb 2014 #139
Gonna forbid distinguishing blondes from brunettes, too? aquart Feb 2014 #132
Hair texture and facial features are important racial markers. FarCenter Feb 2014 #140
Yep. Light-eyed, fair-skinned blondes have more Neanderthal DNA. aquart Mar 2014 #166
Dropped by whom, quinnox? MineralMan Feb 2014 #143
Well, Hispanic is simply a cultural identifier. It it not limited by race, or heritage. MADem Feb 2014 #145
To answer your questions Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #165
When they stop mattering so much LadyHawkAZ Mar 2014 #167
I think this thread has run its course. Thanks to all those who replied politely and quinnox Mar 2014 #170

11 Bravo

(23,925 posts)
1. Now that it's a color, I prefer to be called "privileged".
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:09 PM
Feb 2014

ret5hd

(20,480 posts)
2. As you should. Thank you.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:10 PM
Feb 2014

FSogol

(45,435 posts)
9. Fish-belly white for me.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:29 PM
Feb 2014

Except when exposed to Earth's Sun and then I turn red.

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
20. Well I am white able bodies straight guy in top half of income
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:42 PM
Feb 2014

Distribution. So I guess I'm more than a privilege-American. I'm a privilege-American to the 5th power.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
27. No you aren't. You are not the 1% and definitely not the 0.01%. n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:56 PM
Feb 2014
 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
33. I have been informed in no less than 20 threads this week
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:01 PM
Feb 2014

That I am über privileged.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
37. If you are, mazel tov, but there will always be someone more privileged and that can change.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:09 PM
Feb 2014

I remember when the Queen and the Sultan of Brunei were considered the wealthiest humans on the planet. Apparently, they aren't anymore, but they are not suffering.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
3. Unless we eventually breed ourselves into one race, as long as we have eyes...
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:10 PM
Feb 2014

...we will always use those terms to describe each other. And theres nothing wrong with that in and of itself. Colors play a huge role in how we identify everything.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
36. Genetically, I don't think we can do that.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:07 PM
Feb 2014

So there always will be a gene shuffle. If there is a predominance of one "color" then most of the children will look like that, but every now and then a different looking child pops up when a recessive gene becomes prominent. If there are equal genetic distributions then you get a variety. I have known families with two parents who were of the same color skin, hair and eyes who have biological children from light to dark. My family for instance, two parents produced brunette and blond biological children. A friend of mine who was referred to as African American showed me a picture of her extended family at Thanksgiving and they covered the spectrum from blond to dark.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
46. I think we hypothetically could. I doubt it will ever happen because of our global breeding habits.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:23 PM
Feb 2014

But take a country like China or the Koreas, for example. The vast majority of people share the same general characteristics as far as eye, hair color and a narrow range of similar skin tones. You have to wonder about how something like that happens.

Weren't the early peoples of India thought of as much darker than they tend to be now until the Aryans came down and ended up interbreeding with them?

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
48. we could if there was a major catastrophe
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:27 PM
Feb 2014

like a gigantic asteroid hit the Earth or plague wiped out most of humanity. Then, if the survivors were only concentrated in one area, and were all similar heritage, I would think (but I am no geneticist) that the colors of the offspring would remain the same. But I'm not sure if it would remain that way forever, of having only one color, in my scenario.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
49. That's because back in the stone age, people who had characteristics that fit into the landscape
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:27 PM
Feb 2014

survived long enough to procreate. Then in the Bronze Age, when warrior cultures arose, they pillaged and killed everyone that wasn't them. The spoils went to the victor. Some remnant populations remained in isolated pockets here and there but mostly it was the victors who reproduced. Today we have a different dynamic.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
55. They didn't always wipe out everyone that wasn't them though.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:34 PM
Feb 2014

Going back to the example of early India, my understanding was that the conquerors killed a lot of the men, but kept the women, had children with them and eventually the 2 groups kind've absorbed one another and the more modern common characteristics among Indians now are a product of that assimilation.

Now of course, not everyone in India looks the same, but there is a pretty common norm with hair, eyes and skin tone variations, especially compared to Western countries. I guess maybe the trick is a lot of interbreeding in isolationism over a long period of time (thousands of years?).

I'm just speculating off the general stuff I know from world history. I'm by no means an expert on this sort of topic, but the evolution of racial/ethnic groups and why certain people are a certain color, from a scientific/evolutionary/natural selection point of view, has always been fascinating to me.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
58. I think this is what I said.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:36 PM
Feb 2014

"Some remnant populations remained in isolated pockets here and there but mostly it was the victors who reproduced."

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
62. Right on.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:43 PM
Feb 2014

My main point was though, is, scientifically, mathematically, etc... its possible that we mix the paint up long enough on a global scale, not taking any other factors/events/etc into consideration, that we could end up all looking more similar. Of course the likelihood is very small, at least in my opinion. As long as we have eyes, we'll have "race". And honestly, if it weren't for fear and bigotry, that would nothing but beautiful.

pnwmom

(108,955 posts)
4. That's what the Rethugs would want, so they can pretend people aren't treated differently
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:10 PM
Feb 2014

on the basis of race.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
74. Amazing that some here share the same views
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:14 PM
Feb 2014

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
5. Those distinctions won't go away
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:12 PM
Feb 2014

until everybody is the same color. Or at least until the various "colors" are evenly distributed. People are tribal critters and distinguish each other by how they look. Two million years of evolution doesn't get switched off all in a minute, or in ten thousand years.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
138. India has quite a distribution of "colors" -- but I doubt it is a racial utopia.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:09 PM
Feb 2014

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
141. That's true. nt
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:23 PM
Feb 2014
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
10. Isn't that debatable though?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:33 PM
Feb 2014

I mean, it seems to be the ideal would be not seeing color. That is what Martin Luther King was saying in his dream speech anyway.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
12. That's a misinterpretation of MLK
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:34 PM
Feb 2014

sometimes called "whitewashing" of MLK. You could google and find a ton of links about that as well.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
16. well, to me it seems debatable
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:40 PM
Feb 2014

I would think in an ideal society, color would not be a factor.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
21. We are no where near that ideal society
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:42 PM
Feb 2014

and in the society where we live, claiming to be "color blind" is just a way to dismiss people of color and racism.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
155. the key to getting there is in not ignoring how far we have to go.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 07:20 PM
Feb 2014

and you can't do that by whitewashing the situation, as you wrongly think MLK suggested.

Gman

(24,780 posts)
17. King spoke of how someone is judged
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:41 PM
Feb 2014

Not denying their heritage or judging because of their heritage.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
22. yep, judging not by color of skin
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:43 PM
Feb 2014

Its a famous line in his speech.

Response to quinnox (Reply #10)

RobinA

(9,884 posts)
19. Ooops
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:42 PM
Feb 2014

Now you have done it. "Colorblind" is not an approved of concept. You must have missed that memo. Try to keep up.

MrScorpio

(73,630 posts)
26. Don't make me whip out the white privilege bingo chart
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:53 PM
Feb 2014

The folks who are still denying that it's a problem won't like it one bit.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
28. LOL! They still don't get it. n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:57 PM
Feb 2014

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
38. Apparently it's not good enough not to care about anyone's race, and to treat everyone the same
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:12 PM
Feb 2014

regardless of their race. Because then you become guilty of the dreaded "color-blindness" which automatically makes you a racist, or something.

I am ashamed to confess that my kids have all the symptoms of being color-blind, having friends of several races and treating them all the same. Does anyone know of a good re-education camp?

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
42. you have failed and must now report to local government camp #472A
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:15 PM
Feb 2014

immediately! It's all lit up with bright spotlights and guard towers near the outskirts of town, you can't miss it!

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
45. Having friends of several races and treating them the same doesn't make you "color blind"
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:20 PM
Feb 2014

"Color blindness" means pretending race and racism and the different experiences of people of different races don't exist.

Think Stephen Colbert with his "I don't see black" routine.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
50. I think it depends on the context of "color blind".
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:29 PM
Feb 2014

For example, I'm color blind in how I choose friendships. I would never consider race as a factor as to whether or not I would engage in getting to know someone and becoming friends with them.

But if you are talking about economic issues, it would be foolish to not consider the implications race has various economic matters in various local economies. I don't know that I would call it out and out racism. But ignoring race on issues when race most certainly is a relevant factor is certainly not a sound way to make important judgments.

Response to gollygee (Reply #6)

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
7. I think this is a grey area.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:27 PM
Feb 2014

Or gray area.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
8. I always resented Hispanic since the day some Wasp (oops, should I have said that?)
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:28 PM
Feb 2014

coined it. Where is Hispania? Latina not so much. South of the border we call ourselves that but it isn't all southies just those with European ancestry, well a half century ago, that's what it was about. Today, I don't care. I use the term myself because it's common usage. What always struck me weird was people were always described by their ethnicity in reports like about crimes and other reportable stories, unless they were white. It was just assumed that if no one described a person as dark, hispanic, asian, etc., they were assumed to be a so-called Caucasian.

So to answer your question, either we don't mention skin color, ancestry or ethnicity, or we describe EVERYONE in those terms.

FSogol

(45,435 posts)
11. Isn't Hispania what the Romans called the Iberian Penisula? n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:34 PM
Feb 2014

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
14. One of the Caribbean islands was called that during the days of colonization.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:38 PM
Feb 2014

And Spain was called that by the Romans, two thousand years ago, but today we call them Spaniards not Hispanians.

Democracyinkind

(4,015 posts)
90. Yes it was.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:56 PM
Feb 2014

"Hispaniola" is what the poster below is referring to.

FSogol

(45,435 posts)
93. I know. Owned by the Dominican Republic, IIRC. n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:11 PM
Feb 2014

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
128. No, it is the island that contains both the Dominican Republic and Haiti
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:46 PM
Feb 2014

Democracyinkind

(4,015 posts)
144. Right.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:40 PM
Feb 2014

Autumn

(44,972 posts)
13. I get it now. Words,
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:37 PM
Feb 2014

and the use thereof. I have never been offended by words.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
23. Me neither unless they are used in an accusatory way.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:46 PM
Feb 2014

What are often thought of as swear words are actually the words made into dirty language by a conquering tribe who impose their language on a subjugated population. I often point out that "Canterbury Tales" has the fuck and shit words in it because of when the Saxons were conquered by the Norman French. So we can't say fuck, but we can say fornicate and so on. I especially noticed this when I lived in South America and the cuss words were different in different countries. None of them were in Spanish, which was the common language every where. The cuss words were what the natives in each country used to describe things.

So if you call me a cunt, I will be upset. If you are referring to my cunt benignly in a sentence about that anatomy, I won't be upset.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
29. lol
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:57 PM
Feb 2014

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
75. Not to worry.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:14 PM
Feb 2014

I'm on so many ignore lists right now that I can say things without hearing the censorship jackboots coming for me.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
134. We need a good discussion on the topic of words. The same word can be used in many
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:51 PM
Feb 2014

different ways, depending on how you say it and how you mean it. The words themselves should never hurt anyone, just the intent.

 

oldhippie

(3,249 posts)
154. Oh,yeah, that's just what we need ......
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:47 PM
Feb 2014

...

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
15. You also can't say "that Blonde lady who works at the cafe"
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:40 PM
Feb 2014

Or that really tall guy living down the street.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
24. I was going to ask about gender terms too, actually
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:48 PM
Feb 2014

we seem headed that way.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
25. I don't have any problem with describing people by hair color and height or weight.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:52 PM
Feb 2014

Some times you have to. If I commit a hold up at a convenience store, they should call me the five foot tall woman with brown hair and eyes and white complexion, instead of the tall, blue-eyed man, with sandy hair and ruddy complexion.

Iggo

(47,534 posts)
30. Depends on who's doin' the referrin', know'm say'n?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:57 PM
Feb 2014
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
31. lol
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:00 PM
Feb 2014

Am I to take it you were doing a little "gangsta talk" there?

Iggo

(47,534 posts)
32. Nah, that was my white-boy drawl.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:00 PM
Feb 2014


EDIT: Oh, wait! I mixed my accents! Half cowboy, half street!
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
34. lol
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:02 PM
Feb 2014

well done.

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
39. Sling blade. Mmhmmm.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:13 PM
Feb 2014
 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
35. You can't eliminate racism by pretending the cultural concept of races doesn't exist. NT
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:06 PM
Feb 2014

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
41. Races don't exist actually. We are all the same species.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:15 PM
Feb 2014

It seems we absorbed other species by breeding with them or killed them off back in paleolithic times. Color is just regional differences like white bears in the arctic and brown bear lower down in the planet.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
69. Yes, of course, that's why I said "cultural concept of race"
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:00 PM
Feb 2014

I very much aware that race is a cultural construct. But it is a very important and influential cultural construct.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
72. Yes you are correct.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:09 PM
Feb 2014
:
 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
136. Polar bears, brown bears, and black bears are actually different species
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:04 PM
Feb 2014

There are two subspecies of polar bears, 16 of brown bears, 16 of American black bears. Subspecies are roughly equivalent to races.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ursus_(genus)

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
159. "Roughly equivalent" isnt a very scientific term. IMO there are either one race or as many races as
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 07:51 PM
Feb 2014

the population of the planet. Any other breakdown is arbitrary.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
160. Subspecies emerge when geographically isolated breeding populations evolve differently
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 08:02 PM
Feb 2014

It applies to humans as much as bears. For example, there was minimal gene flow between the Americas and the rest of the world for about 12,000 years. The Eurasian population has been diverging from the sub-Saharan African population for around 70,000 years.

Principle component analysis and clustering algorithms can be used to classify human genotypes into several well-defined groups.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
161. If they "can be" then why havent they? I am guessing that the "well-defined groups" you refer to
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 08:09 PM
Feb 2014

wont be so "well-defined." And even if we could "group" people, I dont see what good it would do.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
54. It's very easy for some to claim that skin
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:34 PM
Feb 2014

color doesn't matter when their skin color has never mattered.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
57. +1
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:36 PM
Feb 2014
 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
70. Well said. NT
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:00 PM
Feb 2014

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
98. +1000
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:20 PM
Feb 2014

fishwax

(29,148 posts)
122. +1! n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:43 PM
Feb 2014
 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
67. Yea, there are different types of racism. Some racism is purely based on "culturalism".
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:54 PM
Feb 2014

I don't know if "culturalism" is even a real word... but I've met white people that don't like urban/inner city culture black people, yet have no problem with black people who are more into what some would consider "upper middle class white culture". Some people harbor prejudice towards others because they are afraid of or otherwise uncomfortable with things associated with the victim groups culture.

I've been guilty of this myself, having grown up in Southern WV (and loathed every minute of it), I can jump the gun a little when it comes to judging white southerners and so called "rednecks" in general. I'm white myself and I grew up around a lot of stuff that bothered me with the local culture. I've had to work on that as I've gotten older. For example, if someone tells me they like NASCAR and country music, I have to stop myself from immediately thinking that person is a simple minded, religious conservative who probably doesn't know a whole lot about the world.

If I were a black man saying the same stuff that I've sometimes said about "southern white trailer trash rednecks", then people could probably fairly call me racist, even though I'm not claiming any racial superiority or feelings of privilege over another particular race as a whole, I'm still directing my prejudice towards a group that is generally one "race" because of the way they live and think. That's not right of course. We shouldn't judge like that. But I believe theres a difference between that and outright thinking that your genetics entitle you to stand over and walk over others, like the Nazis and the white supremacists, etc.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
40. Does the census have a check box for sexual orientation?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:14 PM
Feb 2014

If not, why does it have one for race?

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
43. They finally got around to putting a check box in there for mixed races.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:19 PM
Feb 2014

It was always confusing to me considering half my family were Nordic European, the other half Mediterranean European, and there was my New World Mapuche great, grandmother mixed in there. I couldn't figure out what to check. It seems they need to step up to the plate and do just that for sexual orientation too.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
44. Absolutely.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:19 PM
Feb 2014

From now on, the song by Chicago shall be known as "My World".

Guy Whitey Corngood

(26,494 posts)
47. "hispanic" or "latino" are not colors or races for that matter. nt
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:27 PM
Feb 2014

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
53. Really. People don't get that.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:32 PM
Feb 2014

I used to argue with yanks that Spanish speaking America was as diverse in ethnicities as it is here. I finally gave up.

reformist2

(9,841 posts)
52. Words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:31 PM
Feb 2014

Enjoy the Silence
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
56. Depeche Mode
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:35 PM
Feb 2014

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
59. yes! only a few places race needs to be considered to help fix the problems caused by segregation.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:38 PM
Feb 2014

We are still a country that divides by race ,class, color, religion, even politics.

I'm tired of helping the bad guys by labeling everyone.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
60. I don't think we should ignore our differences...
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:39 PM
Feb 2014

I don't think we should ignore our differences; I do believe however, that we should refrain from insulting or illustrating disrespect towards others based on those same differences.

However, I do realize that for far too many people, the second point may be hard to achieve so long as they continue to do that very thing, yet act under the pretense they are simply asking innocent questions.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
61. No. n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:42 PM
Feb 2014

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
63. Did it occur to you that a bunch of white people sitting around talking about
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:45 PM
Feb 2014

What people of color should be allowed to call themselves is offensive?

Jesus fucking Christ.


For those still confused about the term white privilege, this OP displays it in its fully glory.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
65. Damn, your filter is so narrow-minded and distorted, you see everything in skewed terms
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:49 PM
Feb 2014

This post you did IS a perfect example.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
66. How is it skewed?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:53 PM
Feb 2014

What makes you think it's your business or that of DU as a whole to decide what people of color call themselves?

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
68. "My business" is none of your business
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:57 PM
Feb 2014

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
73. You have posted in the middle of GD
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:11 PM
Feb 2014

You think you can sit in judgment on matters of race and substitute your own wishes for those of people of color. Now you claim it's none of my business?

Is your goal to be deliberately hostile to the few remaining DUers of color?

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
76. Go back to your little gated HOF community where no one will
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:19 PM
Feb 2014

offend you. If you step out side of that gate, be prepared to run into people who have differing views from you. GD is downtown. You don't rule it.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
85. and I am expressing those views right now
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:47 PM
Feb 2014

which clearly you find unacceptable, hence your announcement that I should go back to HOF, essentially stay in my place.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
86. And you have a right to. So express them with courtesy and stop demanding
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:50 PM
Feb 2014

that others have to do what you say.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
87. Asking a question is not a demand
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:54 PM
Feb 2014

Telling someone to go back to the women's quarters is not respectful.

Do you realize some members now refer to GD as "the Big House," a term referring to the mater's house under slavery?
That is the effect of threads like these. I have an interest of DU's holding on to a modicum of diversity rather than driving the last few remaining posters of color off this site. I would like people to think about the effect of what they post has on members of color and to think about what it is they seek to accomplish.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
89. You chose to create a woman's quarter but apparently it's not big enough for you.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:55 PM
Feb 2014

No one made you do it.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
91. I wasn't even on DU when that group was created
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:09 PM
Feb 2014

And here you avoid the issue at hand in lieu of your animosity toward HOF. This is about people of color, not your antipathy toward feminists. However, it's not at all surprising that the same people are hostile to the views of both people of color and feminists.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
95. But you joined it willingly. No one shoved you in there.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:12 PM
Feb 2014

Instead you go downtown, walk into the stores. Deride everything that doesn't suit you and then you retreat behind your gated community and gossip with your neighbors about how those rubes down in the hood don't get you or what you stand for.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
102. I've never posted in HoF, and I totally agree with Bainsbane.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:24 PM
Feb 2014

Nothing more pathetic than a bunch of white people sitting around deciding issues of color

I'm not so worried about people of color leaving DU. I'm worried about white people who claim to be liberal being so stupid.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
106. Good. Agree with that person. I don't.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:27 PM
Feb 2014

I also have a right to express my opinion and I will not be shushed.

FSogol

(45,435 posts)
97. Hey! It's the twisty word game! "the Big House" a term referring to the mater's house under slavery!
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:19 PM
Feb 2014

Did you know the term "quarter" once referred to splitting my ancestors into pieces? I would like people to think about the effect of what they post has on people and to think about what it is they seek to accomplish.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
101. No, you are thinking of drawn and quartered
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:24 PM
Feb 2014

as in pulled into four parts. You etymology is off, but in mocking my concerns, your point is clear.

FSogol

(45,435 posts)
108. No, your concerns are fine, but you are exaggerating terms too far to take offense against
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:30 PM
Feb 2014

posters that should just be ignored/laughed at.

Big house more often refers to prisons/penitentiaries. Check out any American dictionary.



PS. From the Random House Dictionary:
quartered (quar·tered)
adjective
1.divided into quarters.

My note: common English punishment for treason against the Celts from the 13 century to the 18th century.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
112. The person explicitly referenced slavery.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:33 PM
Feb 2014

In juxtaposing the Big House with the slave quarters.

FSogol

(45,435 posts)
114. In this thread? Not that I see. n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:35 PM
Feb 2014

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
118. No, I didn't say it was in this thread
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:37 PM
Feb 2014

My point is that members of color see threads like these as hostile, particularly when they are told to stay out of a discussion because they are "out of their element." That is indeed in this thread.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
92. Wow. Go back to your little gated HOF community? That's a horrible thing to say.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:09 PM
Feb 2014

You basically told another person to stay in their place, or else.
I find something very wrong with that. You both are allowed to state your view and disagree, but to tell someone to run back to HOF is quite offensive.

Response to bravenak (Reply #92)

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
99. Are you telling me to stay out of the discussion, now?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:20 PM
Feb 2014

I hope that's not what you are saying. Cause if you are, I give as good as I take, so bring it baby.
It's your discussion?? WTF died and made you the GD emperor?? I've been reading this stupid crap you all been posting up here for days, dear.

You need to correct yourself and watch how you say things to me, honey. I am not the one.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
104. I'm warning you to stay out for your own good, but if you want to
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:26 PM
Feb 2014

to enter the rattlesnake pit, be my guest.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
111. I live in a snake pit called the USA. And I'm not your guest, hun, open forum and all.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:33 PM
Feb 2014

You ain't running nothin but your mouth.


Your warning sounded like a threat, dear. I don't take very well to people using threatening language and talking down to me.

And I'm pissed to see all of you white people sitting around deciding things and telling black people like me to stay out of the discussion, for our own good. FYVM for that.

And then you use terms from slavery like big house. And you think it's cool and funny. And it's not. It's rather antediluvian, really.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
115. Fine. But whatever issues I have with BB have nothing to do with you.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:35 PM
Feb 2014
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
121. It's very noticeable and you basically told me to STFU.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:41 PM
Feb 2014

I hate being told to STFU.

It make me think that that person wants problems, and I'm down. And the threatening language that you would never use while speaking to me face to face, makes me think you have a problem dealing with black women. I'm trying to help you.

I will be just as rude to you as you are to me at all times.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
163. I think we should leave the snakes to their pit aka this thread
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 09:50 PM
Feb 2014

Snake pit. I like the sound of that -- again. Really explains alot around here.

Let them wallow in this ugly, ignorant thread. Surely, no one is surprised by a single name agreeing with this OP. I just want to high five everyone that sees right through this garbage and calls it out.

Wanna come with me to re-read Onpatrol's post in the AA forum about racism in the Dem party? Not that it will affect that many people in this forum. Between those that completely deny and minimize racism's impact on the past, present and possibly future of this country and the fact that I have no doubt whatsoever that this forum is crawling with anti-Dem Libertarians, I don't think that too many people in GD care about that stuff anyway.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
164. Yes, yes, let us go.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 09:55 PM
Feb 2014

I have intruded for to long.

I think you are right, a reread of onpatrol's post is definitely in order.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
105. Don't tell us who to respond to. If you don't like downtown ......
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:27 PM
Feb 2014

then leave.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
107. ...
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:28 PM
Feb 2014
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
147. have i given you a hug of late.....? this is what i am hearin'
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:08 PM
Feb 2014


 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
149. Yes, I do need a hug now.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:13 PM
Feb 2014

Are we allowed to do that in here? I was told to leave for my own good, so....


See you at 'our place' in HOF.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
151. nah.... i luvs my gd. has been "my" place since 2004.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:26 PM
Feb 2014

but then, i enjoy sipping my wine with like minded and respected in hof, also.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
152. I like GD too.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:29 PM
Feb 2014

I get lots of laughs here. Cute kittys!

JustAnotherGen

(31,780 posts)
156. Three bear hug!
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 07:24 PM
Feb 2014
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
157. Yay!
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 07:25 PM
Feb 2014

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
123. There's a thread about you over there
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:43 PM
Feb 2014
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
148. ya, i saw. i couldnt believe someone was all... downtowning it, and big housing it. funny, huh?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:11 PM
Feb 2014

MineralMan

(146,248 posts)
142. I'm sorry, but that's just way out of line.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:24 PM
Feb 2014

This is GD and we're all guests here. Ordering someone not to post here and to hide in a group on DU is just not acceptable, in my opinion. GD is the public square of DU. Every DUer is welcome to participate in discussions here. Nobody rules GD except the admins of this website.

You have no possible reason to tell someone they may not post in GD. That's just rude.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
146. bah hahaha. i really did not think this was real. oh, all the chuckles i missed on du today. clieta?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:02 PM
Feb 2014

really?

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
77. Newsflash - No one has to answer to you
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:23 PM
Feb 2014

Or your routine, "so, when was the last time you kicked your puppy?" type questions.

Especially when someone is still a relative newbie to Du.

Bottom line, I am a terrible candidate for thought police-like mindsets, or anything close to them. Indeed, I am probably one of the most wrongly suited candidates you will find on Du for that.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
83. I'm terribly sorry
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:38 PM
Feb 2014

for suggesting you might treat members of color on this site with respect. Clearly that was uppity of me. I must defer to my betters who believe themselves entitled to deny the voices of people of color and write race out of existence because clearly you are and your pals are far more important than those who actually experience racism.

1awake

(1,494 posts)
79. You tell him/her they have no right to be judgmental while you are being judgmental. nt
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:26 PM
Feb 2014

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
80. Do you get the part about sitting in judgement of what people of color call themselves?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:28 PM
Feb 2014

How is that his or anyone else's business?

1awake

(1,494 posts)
82. Where did he/she say that?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:33 PM
Feb 2014

I see someone raising the possibility of race being such a non issue that identifying by race becomes obsolete. It is your filter that keeps drawing back to the same thing, not his/hers.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
84. Those are terms people of color self identify with
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:44 PM
Feb 2014

Pretending race is a non-issue is racist. It perpetuates inequality by willfully ignoring what is a serious problem. You are damn right I judge it. I have an unyielding commitment to equal rights and social justice. This nonsense about colorblindness or race not being an issue is a right-wing canard that seeks to deprive people of color of their voices and rights.

1awake

(1,494 posts)
100. The only person saying that is YOU... what aren't you getting??
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:23 PM
Feb 2014
Pretending race is a non-issue is racist. It perpetuates inequality by willfully ignoring what is a serious problem.


I would agree with that, though that was not the other persons intent, and it was obvious it wasn't.

This nonsense about colorblindness or race not being an issue is a right-wing canard that seeks to deprive people of color of their voices and rights.


The only person I have ever seen say that on this board is you. Clearly, I do not look at every post but what I have seen doesn't coincide with what you say. It appears, to use an example, like someone saying what kind of coffee is that, and your reply being purple. It doesn't make sense to the point like you are trying really hard to make an issue out of nothing being discussed.

I am not trying to be mean nor am I trying to argue. Sorry if I come across that way.
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
103. I also agree with the fact that colorblindness is bull.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:25 PM
Feb 2014

This nonsense about colorblindness or race not being an issue is a right-wing canard that seeks to deprive people of color of their voices and rights.

It is so true, it hurts.

1awake

(1,494 posts)
109. I agree because at this time it is impossible. nt
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:31 PM
Feb 2014

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
110. well, I will back up bainsbane on that.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:33 PM
Feb 2014

Being "colorblind" is a false ideal, because it suggests that one should not see color. This is, of course, impossible, most of us are not blind. This colorblind concept also asks us not to consider differences.

It is better to see the color, and the differences, as well as the commonalities, and to celebrate those, and embrace them.

1awake

(1,494 posts)
119. I am in full agreement with that.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:38 PM
Feb 2014

I like to celebrate our differences. Cultures have specific identities and should be celebrated. Customs, foods, dress, everything adds flavor to life. I wish more people could see it that way.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
126. This is why the term "colorblindness" can be seen as offensive.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:44 PM
Feb 2014

It tends to pretend those differences don't exist.

I think that people that use it in the positive sense think of it differently; that they see the color, but it doesn't make a difference to them. I don't think that is enough; they really need to engage and get to know those that are different than them, or from a different background.

1awake

(1,494 posts)
133. Agreed
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:50 PM
Feb 2014
I think that people that use it in the positive sense think of it differently; that they see the color, but it doesn't make a difference to them. I don't think that is enough; they really need to engage and get to know those that are different than them, or from a different background.


Yes, Some use it meant in a positive way, though still impossible in today's world. I'd add boring and a huge miss on wonderful opportunities.

RobinA

(9,884 posts)
125. Yes, It Did
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:44 PM
Feb 2014

but when everything you say or think is labelled offensive by some DUer somewhere, it kinda loses its meaning.

demmiblue

(36,816 posts)
137. Jury results:
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:06 PM
Feb 2014

On Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:47 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

Did it occur to you that a bunch of white people sitting around talking about
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4580642

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

This poster does anything to stir shit. What started out as a respectful discussion turns into a passive aggressive attack on the subject.



You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:56 PM, and the Jury voted 0-6 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: The post doesn't meet the criteria for hiding it.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: agree with the sentiment .he didn't call the op a name .
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I strongly question whether or not the OP started this thread to elicit a respectful discussion. I also happen to agree with the sentiment of the alerted post and do not think that it violates the SOP. What is happening to DU?!

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
150. Oh, thanks.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:16 PM
Feb 2014

Number23

(24,544 posts)
162. Simply put: Juror #6 gets it.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 09:42 PM
Feb 2014

Totally gets it.

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
64. dammit quinnox
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 02:47 PM
Feb 2014

You really gotta stop eating those damn twinkies!

Now you're subjecting DU to your mindless posts!!

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
71. LOL. this neoliberal pretense of color blindness, when indeed color determines some really
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:02 PM
Feb 2014

important outcomes in our lives, is really quite ridiculous.

Baitball Blogger

(46,676 posts)
81. +1000
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:28 PM
Feb 2014

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
88. +1 n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:54 PM
Feb 2014

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
116. +100,000
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:35 PM
Feb 2014

fishwax

(29,148 posts)
130. Yes indeed nt
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:49 PM
Feb 2014

rodroc

(6 posts)
78. Could be offensive
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 03:25 PM
Feb 2014

I think that these terms are offensive and although I am not very offended by them, I am certain that there are lots of people who are. I think it is time for everyone to stop using these terms and referring to people by their ethnic background. I mean is 2014 already!

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
94. Maybe you should include black people in this discussion.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:12 PM
Feb 2014

Not many left though, huh?

Well, best try to run the rest of us off, stat!!

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
113. Several black members already are participating in this thread. eom.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:34 PM
Feb 2014
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
117. Didn't you tell me to stay out of the big house?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:37 PM
Feb 2014

I'm in the AA quarters right now, since it's winter and there not any work to do. Might run over to HOF and stay in my place over there for a while. Don't want my presence to stress you good people out.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
129. LOL!
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:46 PM
Feb 2014

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
131. You're welcome in the women's quarters anytime
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:49 PM
Feb 2014

bravenak. We'll throw you a party.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
135. THANK YOU!!
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:56 PM
Feb 2014

It's nice to be welcomed somewhere on DU. I've been trying to practice my Misandry anyway, now I'll have more time to devote to it.
We need a good party after the month we've had around here!

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
153. I may not be a "good person" of GD ...
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 06:31 PM
Feb 2014

.... but I am a person of GD. glad you are in the conversation.

Call me stupid, but I kinda think AA voices are super important in discussions of race ....?

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
158. I do too.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 07:27 PM
Feb 2014

Thank you.

GeoWilliam750

(2,521 posts)
168. Love your posts
Sat Mar 1, 2014, 01:26 AM
Mar 2014

Have always thought that "your place" is anywhere you want to be.

Are those two cuties in the picture yours?

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
169. Yes, those are my babies.
Sat Mar 1, 2014, 01:30 AM
Mar 2014

They're a bit bigger now, but still cute.

And yes, my place IS wherever I want it to be. Thank you for noticing that, some people would rather I stay away. But looking around this thread, I should have stayed away.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
120. Color terms should be totally embraced, not dropped.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:39 PM
Feb 2014

One does not overcome racism by pretending the problem doesn't exist.

Some people would like them dropped because such discussion makes them uncomfortable. The more color is talked about, in a civil and open way, the more understanding will ensue.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
124. "Some people would like them dropped because such discussion makes them uncomfortable."
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:44 PM
Feb 2014

Yup, yup, triple yup.

As uncomfortable as discussing white privilege.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
127. So much this. nt
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:45 PM
Feb 2014

wryter2000

(46,023 posts)
139. +100,000 n/t
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:11 PM
Feb 2014

n/t

aquart

(69,014 posts)
132. Gonna forbid distinguishing blondes from brunettes, too?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 04:49 PM
Feb 2014

Will I be allowed to say I'm wearing a black t-shirt?

Political correctness gearing up to run amok?

You're expecting liberals to refuse to be liberal anymore?

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
140. Hair texture and facial features are important racial markers.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:12 PM
Feb 2014

aquart

(69,014 posts)
166. Yep. Light-eyed, fair-skinned blondes have more Neanderthal DNA.
Sat Mar 1, 2014, 01:13 AM
Mar 2014

A small indicator of species mongrelism, wouldn't you say?

MineralMan

(146,248 posts)
143. Dropped by whom, quinnox?
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:25 PM
Feb 2014

You don't make that clear at all.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
145. Well, Hispanic is simply a cultural identifier. It it not limited by race, or heritage.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:46 PM
Feb 2014

You can be any color and any heritage, and be "Hispanic."

Samples: David Ortiz, Alberto Fujimori, Pope Francis (Italian out of Argentina), Carmen Diaz, Rita Hayworth, Shakira....

When we're all the same color I suppose it won't matter, but for now we have to do something to identify ourselves, particularly in criminal matters.

Perhaps we ought to hand people a color wheel, with assorted shades from dark to light, and ask witnesses to pick from one. Maybe we could assign each shade a letter or number, or maybe both, so the news report would read:

The suspect was described as five foot eight, with green tinted hair, B-6 skintone, and hazel eyes!

We'd all have to learn the color wheel, of course...but we're smart. We mastered the GW Bush Terra Terra Terra color chart in no time!

Realistically, though, there are huge variations within black, brown, "Asian" (like the assorted shades of Pacific Islanders are "just like" Japanese, who are "just like" Koreans, who are "just like" Chinese...said snarkily) and caucasian. What does "Tan Mom," for example, have in common with Woody Allen? Certainly not their skin color!

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
165. To answer your questions
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 09:55 PM
Feb 2014

1. It would be nice if "color" terms were dropped, since terms like black/brown/yellow/red/white are WAY too general to use in place of ethnic designations; but I don't see it happening anytime soon...

2. No, I don't find it offensive when someone says "black"

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
167. When they stop mattering so much
Sat Mar 1, 2014, 01:22 AM
Mar 2014

...maybe they'll disappear on their own?

JMO.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
170. I think this thread has run its course. Thanks to all those who replied politely and
Sat Mar 1, 2014, 01:31 AM
Mar 2014

respectfully. And a big "No thanks!" to those few who tried to distort and dishonestly spin what it was about in the first place!

The OP in its original form -

Should "color" terms be dropped completely? [View all]

Do you find it offensive when someone says or refers to "white" or "black" or "brown-skinned" or "hispanic" or "latino"?

I don't, but I'm wondering if this is the next frontier?

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