Hey, You People! DU folks! READ HERE! (no whining about DU here)
Last edited Sat Nov 23, 2013, 03:36 PM - Edit history (1)
Hello!
You may remember me from such hits as Poverty Sucks and Poverty Sucks:Cop Edition. No, really - I have posted a few times here on DU about my struggles with poverty and how us poor folks are perceived in this society. So many of you have posted encouraging words on my OPs and/or have inboxed me thoughtful messages.
Some posters encouraged me to contact OneGrassRoot in order to get set up on Wishadoo and possibly obtain some help. I have a lot of trouble asking for help. I'm so used to being a fixer. The message from society that poor families like mine are just made up of takers really does wear down on you, even though you know it's not true, and lends a certain level of shame to asking for assistance. Still, I sucked it up asked for help and held onto some hope.
I'm writing this because Gmail has been super wonky for me for the past couple of days and I have yet to be able to send personal thanks yous to those of you who have donated to Wishadoo for me. I am a very wordy person and I have found myself without the adequate wording to express my gratitude. These donations are going to make a big difference for my family - from paying some bills, to fixing my car, affording gas for that car, to getting my husband some damn work pants without holes in them. This has given us a moment to breathe - something we have not done in a long while. Just the knowledge that there are people - total strangers, as folks would say - out there who would be willing to lend a hand leaves a giant bright spot in our lives and reminds us that there is so much good in this world, even if it doesn't make it to the headlines. One of my friends has this piece of artwork that says, "Believe There is Good In The World," and certain letters are highlighted to say, "Be The Good." You have all been proof of the good in this world. I am still in shock that we are getting such help and I wish I had a better way to let you all know how grateful I am on behalf of my family (hubby and two kids).
To those who have given me kind words, words of encouragement, some understanding, good thoughts, and prayers - THANK YOU. It helps so much just to know that there are people who are reading your words, understanding and sympathizing with you plights, and thinking of/praying for you. Just to know that you have people who are in your corner is a massive morale boost. I thoroughly believe all that positive energy does very good things.
I'm sending love to you all.
And now, every emoticon that applies to my gratitude towards you folks:
I'm sorry if this doesn't belong in GD. I wanted to be sure many folks saw it. My apologies if it's the incorrect spot.
If you'd like to read my posts on my family's struggle, you can find them here
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023842668
and here
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024034233
****Just a small update 11/23/2013****
I got my rear cylinders fixed. I went back and forth on trying to learn to do them on my own, but ended up going to a local shop and having it done. They charged half of the original garage's quote, and $80.00-$100.00 less than other quotes from various shops. I just took it back to the garage that originally did my inspection...the folks who told me to bring it back when I get the work done and they'll re-inspect no charge. Except they won't. They want to charge me. I get it, ya gotta make money, but you don't gain my trust by going back on what you told me. So, I have an appointment for inspection with the shop that replaced my cylinders. So, fingers crossed that everything is good and I don't need additional work. My car feels better...there is a notable difference when driving. Yay!
And y'all did this. I got my car repaired thanks you Wishadoo and folks here. To make this political, I highly doubt we would see things of this nature on Free Republic. DU ROCKS.
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I am happy for you and your message of people helping people is exciting!
So don't feel the need to ever, ever (did I mention ever?) apologize. No really. It's the last thing needed. Certainly not required. So you can freely express yourself without fear of recrimination, or censorship. You may get spanked occasionally, but one is welcomed back into the fold, with a stern but magnanimous caution. So there you have a broad explanation, by a rather circuitous route, of the functionings and attitudes pervading this fine establishment. Did I mention loquacious? 
For all.
Starfish story, you know?
I'm so glad you got the breather you needed!
Been repeating that one for a long time to cynical friends. And now I'm the starfish.
I hope you and your family continue to do well, and step into the sunshine of MANY bright spots!
I edited the OP with an update!
