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Just posted this on GetEqual's FB page (re: Michelle Obama heckler) (Original Post) markpkessinger Jun 2013 OP
Thanks Mark, for your level headed rational response to the idiocy shown by Ms. Sturtz. Tarheel_Dem Jun 2013 #1
So the President should never sign an EO because the next one might reverse it? LonePirate Jun 2013 #51
What the White House said just hours before Michelle's speech, below Tx4obama Jun 2013 #69
Excellent points eissa Jun 2013 #2
She probably got more than she expected. If she had waited for the appropriate time would A Simple Game Jun 2013 #6
Not all publicity is good publicity eissa Jun 2013 #8
All publicity is publicity. It gets the message out. No, it probably won't change peoples minds A Simple Game Jun 2013 #24
Shouldn't the aim be making changes instead of making scenes? eissa Jun 2013 #28
Not always zipplewrath Jun 2013 #32
The White House restated their position hours before Michelle's speech, below Tx4obama Jun 2013 #70
Still waiting for that to ACTUALLY HAPPEN. Fearless Jun 2013 #82
Senator Harkin has said that he will hold a vote on ENDA this year. Tx4obama Jun 2013 #83
And it will pass the House? Fearless Jun 2013 #84
Which probably wouldn't have satisfied the heckler zipplewrath Jun 2013 #90
Wrong.... we're not talking about any agenda right now, we're talking about horrible bahavior groundloop Jun 2013 #31
Zero discussion? You even mention it in your post saying it is not discussed. A Simple Game Jun 2013 #35
The only thing that got exposed leftynyc Jun 2013 #38
No … 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2013 #45
She could have done it for a selfish reason, I don't know, nor do I care. A Simple Game Jun 2013 #57
And ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2013 #58
You may be right, depends on how long it stays in the news. n/t A Simple Game Jun 2013 #59
So ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2013 #68
The First Lady should have stood there quietly and allowed the heckler JDPriestly Jun 2013 #78
??? onpatrol98 Jun 2013 #86
This is not about race. Watch how well President Obama handles JDPriestly Jun 2013 #108
Interesting... onpatrol98 Jun 2013 #109
Pres. Clinton used to listen to hecklers and talk to them Kurovski Jun 2013 #107
Great logic, mark. Major Hogwash Jun 2013 #3
thank you! handmade34 Jun 2013 #4
+1 onpatrol98 Jun 2013 #5
Excellent post leftynyc Jun 2013 #7
First Obama needs to apologize dbackjon Jun 2013 #10
ONLY Obama needs to apologize? Nothing about the previous 43 Presidents? Thats telling. JaneyVee Jun 2013 #11
Are the previous 43 still in office? dbackjon Jun 2013 #13
No but 41, 42, & 43 are still alive. JaneyVee Jun 2013 #17
And have little power dbackjon Jun 2013 #20
And has done more for gay rights then every President combined in US history. JaneyVee Jun 2013 #23
The only answer you will get is: "But only because it was politically possible". Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #55
How wrong you are. dbackjon Jun 2013 #98
I don't dismiss the role of activism. I do, however, reject your assertion about "our money". Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #99
I expect a President and a party that can multi-task dbackjon Jun 2013 #101
And what is your criteria for deciding which speaking events can focus on another issue? Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #102
You are ignoring that the speech was a fundraiser for corporations dbackjon Jun 2013 #103
I see. Heckling is saintly behavior that must be rewarded. Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #104
Protesting a worthy cause is dbackjon Jun 2013 #105
And still thinks Gay Rights are a state's rights issue dbackjon Jun 2013 #97
I do hope this "little power" stays true DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #96
Seriously panader0 Jun 2013 #19
Take it up with the President leftynyc Jun 2013 #36
One moment. The 1st sitting President to openly support gay marriage need to apologize to gays? Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #54
+ I can't even begin to write a number that large Number23 Jun 2013 #76
. bunnies Jun 2013 #91
You mean Obama that opposed Gay Marriage dbackjon Jun 2013 #93
yeah that last guy DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #95
The evening was a DNC political fundraiser. While the topic was important Luminous Animal Jun 2013 #12
So fucking what? leftynyc Jun 2013 #37
Ruined their evening. Boo fucking hoo. What rarified world they must live in Luminous Animal Jun 2013 #40
Ah - I had no idea I was dealing with a child leftynyc Jun 2013 #41
They were there to talk about inner city children treestar Jun 2013 #62
^THIS^ SunSeeker Jun 2013 #72
I'm not sure urinating on an equally worthy topic is ever effective. Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #73
Exactly. SunSeeker Jun 2013 #75
They were there to raise money for the DNC. Luminous Animal Jun 2013 #79
As a gay man dbackjon Jun 2013 #9
There is a flip side, and it is not specific to this event. Fire Walk With Me Jun 2013 #14
Didn't hear anything "snotty" or "selfish" about her statement. JaneyVee Jun 2013 #18
If the protester is a toddler, why does the adult have to threaten to walk away from it? n/t Fire Walk With Me Jun 2013 #46
Excellent post - and one hundred percent agree dbackjon Jun 2013 #21
What about Michelle's "rights" to be heard without being disrupted??? Major Hogwash Jun 2013 #39
I don't really care either way but I think Sturtz did a smart thing. As for spin? A Simple Game Jun 2013 #42
You're missing two points of the post you've replied to. Fire Walk With Me Jun 2013 #47
Why can't I get anyone to respond about where you draw the line in re private property? I'm agreeing patrice Jun 2013 #53
K&R. Totally agree. The time and place to speak about inequality is always 'here and now'. idwiyo Jun 2013 #88
As a hetero LittleGirl Jun 2013 #15
"Ms. Sturtz's actions reflected badly on the4 entire LGBT community." NCTraveler Jun 2013 #16
Yup - most gays I know applauded her actions dbackjon Jun 2013 #22
if that had been ann romney, more DUers would be applauding her actions as well. frylock Jun 2013 #25
Well maybe it would be because eissa Jun 2013 #29
When it became politically ok for them to be supportive dbackjon Jun 2013 #33
i think it's because people, in general, are extremely partisan.. frylock Jun 2013 #63
No, they would not treestar Jun 2013 #61
yep. more so on facebook. not so much here. nt boilerbabe Jun 2013 #26
I haven't acted as though I were a "spokesman" at all . . . markpkessinger Jun 2013 #43
I really dont care who or what she is or what she has to say... jessie04 Jun 2013 #27
Very well said, Mark, and thank you! Glorfindel Jun 2013 #30
And I agree with you old friend. Mark speaks for those of us who understand who our allies are Rowdyboy Jun 2013 #74
Same here, Rowdyboy! Us Mississippians need to stick together. Glorfindel Jun 2013 #94
Way to go, Dude. Way to go! nt MrScorpio Jun 2013 #34
Excellent on you! … 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2013 #44
Some people call that a part of the 1st Amendment, but what are you gonna do. n/t Fire Walk With Me Jun 2013 #48
Yep ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2013 #49
Power concedes nothing without a demand. ~Frederick Douglass Fire Walk With Me Jun 2013 #50
True ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2013 #52
Frederick Douglass was also one who didn't cede his platform to hecklers. onpatrol98 Jun 2013 #80
LGBTQ people suffer from inequal rights and this is unacceptable in any form. I'm sure that Fire Walk With Me Jun 2013 #81
Frederick Douglass onpatrol98 Jun 2013 #85
You are correct, I cannot surmise his reaction, however I hope the gist is taken. n/t Fire Walk With Me Jun 2013 #89
I get the gist of it...but, I always got the gist of it. onpatrol98 Jun 2013 #92
Well said. And you made some great points. BenzoDia Jun 2013 #56
Great point about executive orders treestar Jun 2013 #60
Thanks mark! Cha Jun 2013 #64
An immature self promoter got treated as she deserved. alphafemale Jun 2013 #65
Apparently, you're not alone Mark. Amanda Turkel reports that Ms. Sturtz was.... Tarheel_Dem Jun 2013 #66
Spot on, Mark! After thinking about it for a while I've concluded Strutz wanted her 15. alp227 Jun 2013 #67
Topical and in public DevonRex Jun 2013 #71
Dan Choi was mercilessly crucified right here on DU ruggerson Jun 2013 #87
Glad to hear your perspective. Thanks for sharing it. Number23 Jun 2013 #77
K & R Scurrilous Jun 2013 #100
The couple who hosted the party... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2013 #106
When no one can hear what you are saying. jwirr Jul 2015 #110
I'm not exactly sure what your comment means . . . markpkessinger Jul 2015 #111
Your post was used as a link on another post commenting on the BLM protest at NN. The new jwirr Jul 2015 #112
Thanks for clarifying . . . markpkessinger Jul 2015 #113

Tarheel_Dem

(31,233 posts)
1. Thanks Mark, for your level headed rational response to the idiocy shown by Ms. Sturtz.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:21 PM
Jun 2013

I especially like this:


"As soon as the political winds change and there's another rightwinger in the Oval Office, any executive order can simply be undone by another executive order. Instead of putting so much energy into pushing for what amount to little more than a stop-gap measure, why not focus your energies toward actually chaning the law?"


If I FB'd, I'd "like" it, but I hate the asshole who runs it.

LonePirate

(13,417 posts)
51. So the President should never sign an EO because the next one might reverse it?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:42 PM
Jun 2013

Our President should not use his executive powers because the next one might use those very same powers? What kind of logic is that? A Democratic President who fails to utilize the power of the executive office for the good of the people is not much different than a Republican President who utilizes it for evil.

Also, anyone who thinks ENDA is going to pass the Republican House so it can become law is seriously out of touch with current politics. It is a waste of time lobbying Republicans on this issue. The only recourse is to lobby the President and his connections to enact what limited change they can.

Tx4obama

(36,974 posts)
69. What the White House said just hours before Michelle's speech, below
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:59 PM
Jun 2013

-snip-

The heckling happened a bit after 6 p.m. under a white tent in the backyard of the residence of Karen Dixon and Nan Schaffer in Northwest DC. Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz, the chair of the Democratic National Committee, also was in attendance at the event, which benefits the DNC.

The incident came hours after White House press secretary Jay Carney reiterated the president’s focus being on legislation, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, that would ban most private employers from discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, and not the proposed executive order.

-snip-

http://www.buzzfeed.com/chrisgeidner/michelle-obama-heckled-for-presidents-inaction-on-proposed-l


eissa

(4,238 posts)
2. Excellent points
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:24 PM
Jun 2013

She was in a room full of people who support her cause. Had she waited and made her legitimate argument during the appropriate time, she would have had not only the First Lady's attention and support, but everyone listening. Instead, she chose to make a scene that not only backfired on her personally, but did nothing to advance her cause.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
6. She probably got more than she expected. If she had waited for the appropriate time would
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:22 PM
Jun 2013

we be talking about it now. I doubt it. No she got more than she expected. Mrs. Obama played it almost as if it was scripted. The idea of these actions is to get the message out. Mission accomplished and more. Well played.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
8. Not all publicity is good publicity
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:32 PM
Jun 2013

Those opposed to LGBT rights are no more supportive of the cause than before, and those that are supportive don't appreciate seeing the First Lady attacked in this manner. People may be talking, but her shenanigans will have little to no impact.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
24. All publicity is publicity. It gets the message out. No, it probably won't change peoples minds
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:58 PM
Jun 2013

if they are already opposed, but it will expose the subject to people that normally wouldn't hear about it, or care.

The more times that someone is exposed to an idea, the more likely they will think about it.

LGBT people know that if fence sitting people really think about it, they are likely to come down on their side.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
28. Shouldn't the aim be making changes instead of making scenes?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:05 PM
Jun 2013

We have a president who has not only been VERY supportive of LGBT rights, but has pushed their agenda through unlike any other elected official before him. I don't see how belittling his wife and disrespecting a cause that is dear to her (in a room full of supporters of both causes) will positively affect anything. Had she done this at a congressional hearing, or at a campaign stump for someone opposed to LGBT rights, it would have made more sense. As it stands now, we have members of the same community that support the same cause attacking each other. Great job

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
32. Not always
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:18 PM
Jun 2013

First they have to be aware of your issue.
Then they have to understand your issue.
Then they have to take a position on your issue.
Then you may have to persuade them to agree with you on your issue.
Then they have to actually back your issue with action.

These are rarely accomplished on the same day/through the same act.

One can think of the early days of women's suffrage. It wasn't always pretty and it often involved what was considered at the time outrageous and rude behavior, including what was often characterized as "unlady like". It would be decades before they would actually get to vote.

This woman was trying to make people aware of their cause. How many of you knew there was even a conflict with Obama about signing such an executive order? You are now, whether you agree or not. The discussion that follows will be about the wisdom or usefulness of such an order. That's step two. Many of you are also taking step 3. Soon, they can move on to step 4.

Not to mention the wife probably goes home and says "you won't believe what I had to put up with today"...

With a little luck, Sasha follows with "well why won't you sign it?"

Tx4obama

(36,974 posts)
70. The White House restated their position hours before Michelle's speech, below
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:07 AM
Jun 2013

-snip-

The heckling happened a bit after 6 p.m. under a white tent in the backyard of the residence of Karen Dixon and Nan Schaffer in Northwest DC. Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz, the chair of the Democratic National Committee, also was in attendance at the event, which benefits the DNC.

The incident came hours after White House press secretary Jay Carney reiterated the president’s focus being on legislation, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, that would ban most private employers from discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, and not the proposed executive order.

-snip-

http://www.buzzfeed.com/chrisgeidner/michelle-obama-heckled-for-presidents-inaction-on-proposed-l


Fearless

(18,421 posts)
84. And it will pass the House?
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 03:04 AM
Jun 2013

I'll bet you it doesn't even make it to the Senate Floor. Republicans will threaten filibuster and Democrats will flee like a chicken with its head cut off.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
90. Which probably wouldn't have satisfied the heckler
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 08:55 AM
Jun 2013

They might have even been aware of it and made it more of a reason for them to decide to take the action they did.

groundloop

(11,518 posts)
31. Wrong.... we're not talking about any agenda right now, we're talking about horrible bahavior
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:12 PM
Jun 2013

She failed at anything other than a few fleeting minutes of fame where the only discussion will be about her horrible treatment of the First Lady. There has been zero discussion of furthering the LGBT, only of what a stupid act this was.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
35. Zero discussion? You even mention it in your post saying it is not discussed.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:55 PM
Jun 2013

You have already formed an opinion so you focus on what she did instead of why she did it, others may not already have an opinion.

You don't think people will ask why she did what she did when they hear the story? It's human nature to want to know why somebody does something. When you learn why somebody does something you form or at least start to form an opinion about it.

She's getting the message out, you may not like the way she did it, but she did do it.

What would we be discussing if she hadn't done it? Probably not LGBT, but we are, aren't we!

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
38. The only thing that got exposed
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:09 PM
Jun 2013

is that the left can be as intractable and rude as the right. She did more harm than good.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
45. No …
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:13 PM
Jun 2013

I suspect she got exactly what she wanted … people all over the internets talking about HER … not her issue; but her.
And sadly, this has become an acceptable substitute for political discourse … even on DU.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
57. She could have done it for a selfish reason, I don't know, nor do I care.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:24 PM
Jun 2013

I doubt I will remember the womans name tomorrow.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
58. And ...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:04 PM
Jun 2013

I doubt anyone will remember anything about what she said ... other than that she was acting extremely juvenile in whatever she was saying.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
68. So ...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:57 PM
Jun 2013

Maybe you can tell this civil rights veteran ... When did yelling become effective or even reasonable political discourse?

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
78. The First Lady should have stood there quietly and allowed the heckler
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 02:05 AM
Jun 2013

to have her say. The audience would have booed the heckler down. Michelle Obama needs to have more patience and trust her audiences more. Let the audience take care of hecklers. Just stand there patiently and smile at your supporters in the audience. I suspect she wishes she had done that. She must have been very tired or had a bad day. Because politicians know how to handle hecklers. Let your friends take care of them. Don't react yourself. And your Secret Service people can escort a heckler out of the place if the heckler is too awful.

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
86. ???
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 03:19 AM
Jun 2013

Quote: "The First Lady should've quietly stood there and allowed the heckler to have her say."

Should she have had her eyes on the ground, also.

I feel like we've slipped into a scene from Gone with the Wind or maybe The Color Purple. Anyone in here remember Sophia?

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
108. This is not about race. Watch how well President Obama handles
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 03:23 PM
Jun 2013

hecklers. Race is not an excuse for making mistakes in handling people. Politicians who have big egos regardless of race are likely to have problems.

As I said, Michelle Obama should have allowed her audience to take care of the rude person. They would have. I have seen it happen.

It is extremely unlikely that the heckler interrupted Michelle Obama because of Ms. Obama's race. It can happen that race is a heckler's issue or that someone interrupts a speech to yell out racial insults, but that is not what happened in this case.

Race is irrelevant.

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
109. Interesting...
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 03:39 PM
Jun 2013

I don't believe the heckler was thinking about race when she 1) picked Michelle Obama as a target or 2) heckled her. I am not sure her response to Michelle Obama's approach wasn't race related.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
107. Pres. Clinton used to listen to hecklers and talk to them
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 02:18 PM
Jun 2013

First Lady admitted very adamantly that she doesn't deal well with this.

Whatcha gonna do?

I call bullshit on calling the heckler an idiot. She clearly is not. She has lousy timing, but the fact remains Clinton treated people who shouted at him as if he could bother to listen.

She was out raising money, not on a "listening tour". Or even a "Rainbiow Tour"!

So be it.

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
3. Great logic, mark.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:26 PM
Jun 2013

If everything could have been changed simply through executive orders, this country would have been bouncing between 2 extremes like a ping-pong ball for the last 30 years.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
7. Excellent post
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:23 PM
Jun 2013

It would go a long way if Ms. Sturtz apologized, in public, for her rude behavior. The topic of the evening was helping out inner city children (a cause very dear to Ms. Obama) and this person ruined the evening for all attending (who spent the same $500 she did). She owes the First Lady and all those in attendance an apology.

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
20. And have little power
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:52 PM
Jun 2013

I am only concerned with the current occupant of the White House, who opposed gay rights, appointed anti-gay people, praised anti-gay ministers, coddles anti-gay activists.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
55. The only answer you will get is: "But only because it was politically possible".
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:15 PM
Jun 2013

If President Obama waved a pen and made homophobia and bigotry against gays extinct in law and reality, some people would quibble over the brand of pen he used to do it as a sign of his...ahem..."secret hatred for the LGBT community".

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
98. How wrong you are.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:41 PM
Jun 2013

Obama has made strides, but 90% has been because of political pressure from GLBT Activists and their allies.

Obama and the DNC really could care less about GLBT's - they just want our money.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
99. I don't dismiss the role of activism. I do, however, reject your assertion about "our money".
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:51 PM
Jun 2013

Would you be satisfied if maybe President Obama and the DNC just dropped everything else and focused solely on LGBT issues for the remainder of his term?

While I admire your dedication to the cause, I can't help but think you are going to find it difficult to elect a majority congress and executive branch on a single issue platform.

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
101. I expect a President and a party that can multi-task
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:01 PM
Jun 2013

I expect a President that actually fully champions equality for all
I expect a President that does EVERYTHING IN HIS POWER to promote that
I expect a President that doesn't believe it is a State's Rights issue
I expect a President that doesn't use anti-gay bigots to speak at his inauraration or campaign events.
I expect a President that has empathy for us.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
102. And what is your criteria for deciding which speaking events can focus on another issue?
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:12 PM
Jun 2013

Without being interrupted in a rude manner.

We've already established poverty doesn't rank high enough to be worthy of politeness.

Can I get a list?

One also wonders. Ellen Sturtz is hearing someone speak on poverty and her thought is "but what about the LGBT community!". What particular problem with discussing poverty triggered an outburst on equality? "Blah, blah..we get it. Poverty is bad. What about MY issue???"

Is that effective activism? Pissing on another worthy cause because your own didn't get top billing?

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
103. You are ignoring that the speech was a fundraiser for corporations
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:17 PM
Jun 2013

And not focused on poverty. Why she picked that moment to protest? Not sure. You'd have to ask her yourself.

Mrs. Obama handled it VERY POORLY herself. She should have acknowledged the problem, and said she would address the issue after she is done with her speech.

Instead, she couldn't be bothered with it.

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
105. Protesting a worthy cause is
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:31 PM
Jun 2013

Unless you don't think it is a worthy cause.


Calling her a heckler is a right-wing ploy. She is a protester.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
19. Seriously
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:52 PM
Jun 2013

Which President has done the most to promote gay rights? The answer is obvious.
Has the goal of total equality been achieved yet? Not yet. But to blame Obama for gay prejudice is silly.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
36. Take it up with the President
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:05 PM
Jun 2013

This was his wife and a very rude woman ruined an evening people paid a lot of money for. This President has done more for the LGBT community than the other 43 put together.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
54. One moment. The 1st sitting President to openly support gay marriage need to apologize to gays?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:00 PM
Jun 2013

Our last democratic president gave us Don't Ask, Don't Tell and DOMA.

But Obama needs to apologize?

What the actual fuck?

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
93. You mean Obama that opposed Gay Marriage
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 10:41 AM
Jun 2013

Had anti-gay people at campaign events, and had a person that advocated killing gays at his inaguartion.

And, only is supporting gay marriage BECAUSE of noise made by GLBT activists.

IF we followed the advice here on DU, which is to play nice, sit down and shut the fuck up and wait for America to evolve, he would not be supporting gay marriage.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
37. So fucking what?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:07 PM
Jun 2013

She ruined the evening and owes everyone in attendance an apology. And she comments about the First Lady "getting in her face". After what she did what did she expect? Flowers?

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
40. Ruined their evening. Boo fucking hoo. What rarified world they must live in
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:14 PM
Jun 2013

if a few moments of heckling ruined their evening. Too bad they all rushed out in tears and Ms Obama had to cancel the speech. I hope the DNC kept the money, though.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
41. Ah - I had no idea I was dealing with a child
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:46 PM
Jun 2013

who thinks their issue is the MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD. Who cares about inner city children when there's something to bitch about to a person who has no power? If you think this woman did any good at all for her cause, you're delusional.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
62. They were there to talk about inner city children
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:20 PM
Jun 2013

This is an issue too.

Now imagine a heckler about inner city children interrupting a speech about gay rights.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
73. I'm not sure urinating on an equally worthy topic is ever effective.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:26 AM
Jun 2013

And who knows? Maybe heckling has a place. If a president is discussing terrorism, it might be a good choice to mention Gitmo and torture since they are somewhat related.

But during a speech on caring for HIV, shouting out something about the Keystone pipeline is odd.

Using the latter example, wouldn't the heckler be saying, "Yeah, yeah...blah...blah...AIDS is bad. Let's talk about important things!"

SunSeeker

(51,550 posts)
75. Exactly.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:38 AM
Jun 2013

That's what I love about DU. There's always someone who's thinking what I'm thinking...and can say it better than I can. Thank you for being one of those people.

 

Fire Walk With Me

(38,893 posts)
14. There is a flip side, and it is not specific to this event.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:47 PM
Jun 2013

All people should have equal rights =right now=. That's what "rights" means. To have to endure a society filled with bigotry, violence, and outright hate and even murder over differences is intolerable. It is possible for politicians to promote equal rights instead of every now and then tossing out a passing comment, the equivalent of a dog biscuit, and then change would actually occur instead of the painful process of leaving it to gradual evolution. "Grow up, all people have equal rights". It's that simple. But "leaders" will not and as such leave the promotion of rights to the people. It is shameful to have to -demand- what is natural: that all people are equal and will be treated equally, and if you're not on that ticket there is something socially wrong with you. It also de-legitimises the function of civil disobedience, which is the instigator of much positive change, such as the civil rights movement.

If Mrs. Obama needs to get snotty and selfish instead of simply opening her ears for a minute and actually listening compassionately to one of the people of this country who actually put her there to listen in the first place, and who has a painfully legitimate issue to promote, then it is proven that Mrs. Obama is evidently "not there to listen", and when they don't listen, it's not democracy, is it.

This is likely the wrong thread in which to post this. I know that manners and getting along are extremely important but there are cases and trends which call for "more". Many will disagree when and where those cases occur.

 

JaneyVee

(19,877 posts)
18. Didn't hear anything "snotty" or "selfish" about her statement.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:50 PM
Jun 2013

I think snotty and selfish would be the one screaming out loud like a toddler.

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
39. What about Michelle's "rights" to be heard without being disrupted???
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:09 PM
Jun 2013

Michelle was invited to speak at that event, Ellen was not there to be a speaker.
See how that works?

Instead, Ellen went there to disrupt.
And that makes her a troll.
Which is why she was shown the door.

You can't spin this any other way, no matter how hard you try.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
42. I don't really care either way but I think Sturtz did a smart thing. As for spin?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:19 PM
Jun 2013

People paid at least $500 to see her speak. If I were one of them, when Mrs Obama threatened to take her ball and go home because of one rude person, I wouldn't have been mad at some person asking her a question, you should expect that in a crowd. Isn't she supposed to be a professional?

My opinion of Mrs Obama went down a few notches, who threatens to punish a whole crowd for the sins of one person? She needs to figure out how to handle hecklers if she wants to speak in public.

 

Fire Walk With Me

(38,893 posts)
47. You're missing two points of the post you've replied to.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:24 PM
Jun 2013

Firstly, it was intended generally and secondly, that politicians and anyone lobbying for politicians are subject to the will of the people. "Democracy" means "the voice and will of the people". And LGBTQ folk are suffering under intolerable inequality which must be contested and ended.

You may have also missed that shit's fucked up and bullshit, and that "politicians" and "leaders" are doing fuck-all about it. Civil disobedience is required to force them to instigate change. Of course, we Occupiers were beaten and jailed in huge numbers for having spoken up about problems, effectively within the FBI's definition of domestic terrorism (the use and or threat of force to get a group of politically-minded people to change their behavior) so even the 1st Amendment is fucked off by those in power, and voting really isn't doing the trick, so exactly what is left?

patrice

(47,992 posts)
53. Why can't I get anyone to respond about where you draw the line in re private property? I'm agreeing
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:58 PM
Jun 2013

with you in principle, but I want to understand the tactical implications of what you're saying.

LittleGirl

(8,282 posts)
15. As a hetero
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:47 PM
Jun 2013

doing everything possible to show the bigots they are wrong, I agree with this post. Thank you for showing that there are civilized people left in this country that know the difference between causing a scene and actually making a difference. Cheers.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
16. "Ms. Sturtz's actions reflected badly on the4 entire LGBT community."
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:48 PM
Jun 2013

I have seen multiple members of the LGBT community support Ms. Sturtz's. Acting as though you are the spokesman in order to make your point more valid is what is "appalling".

eissa

(4,238 posts)
29. Well maybe it would be because
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:07 PM
Jun 2013

neither Romney has been very supportive of LGBT rights. Attacking a president and first lady that have been as supportive of LGBT rights as the Obamas have is ridiculous.

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
33. When it became politically ok for them to be supportive
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:27 PM
Jun 2013

You may have forgotten that Obama's opposed gay marriage, supported Prop 8, had anti-gay activists at campaign fundraisers, had a person that openly advocated for killing gays speak at his first inauguration, but this gay man has not.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
63. i think it's because people, in general, are extremely partisan..
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:25 PM
Jun 2013

whether they care to acknowledge it or not. I'm not above that myself.

markpkessinger

(8,392 posts)
43. I haven't acted as though I were a "spokesman" at all . . .
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:33 PM
Jun 2013

. . . The observation that Ms. Sturtz's behavior reflects badly on the LGBT community is not a statement of consensus by, nor on behalf of, the LGBT community as a whole; rather, it is a statement about how some outside the community will perceive us (fairly or unfairly) as a result of a single individual's boorish behavior. Now, some may think those folks don't matter to our cause, but like it or not, there is a PR aspect to all of this, which folks like Sturtz would do well to consider.

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
74. And I agree with you old friend. Mark speaks for those of us who understand who our allies are
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:33 AM
Jun 2013

Haven't heard from you in a while and I'm really glad to hear from you!

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
44. Excellent on you! …
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:12 PM
Jun 2013

I would only offer that anybody who thinks the way to get ANYONE to do ANYTHING is to heckle ANYONE is a complete and utter fool.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
49. Yep ...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:34 PM
Jun 2013

And the 1st Amendment says nothing about: "One must/should/it's preferable that the exercise of this right ACT LIKE A F@#$ING ADULT.

I guess that was an implied clause.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
52. True ...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:45 PM
Jun 2013

Question: How many times have you been moved to change your mind on any matter ... by someone yelling at you.

At some point, people MUST apply the reality of life to their bullshit.

IMHO ... Now is a good time to start.

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
80. Frederick Douglass was also one who didn't cede his platform to hecklers.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 02:41 AM
Jun 2013

I'm pretty sure Frederick Douglass would be mighty proud of Michelle Obama. And, he was also often heckled. That's a great quote. I think Sturtz had a momentary sense of power as she talked over the first lady. I think Ms. Obama demanded it back.

 

Fire Walk With Me

(38,893 posts)
81. LGBTQ people suffer from inequal rights and this is unacceptable in any form. I'm sure that
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 02:43 AM
Jun 2013

Mr. Douglass would also appreciate the struggle for demanding that which should already be present, which should not require a demand to begin with.

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
85. Frederick Douglass
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 03:08 AM
Jun 2013

You may want to believe that Frederick Douglass would have approved of Sturtz's yelling down Michelle Obama, but I find it doubtful.

While he may would have believed in the cause, equality, I'm not believing he would have believed in a shout down of Michelle Obama. The only power she had was to hold the floor where she was invited to speak. I'm thinking Frederick Douglass' chest would have swelled with pride at her standing her ground.

But, I could be wrong.

I think we're seeing a different set of optics. Close your eyes for a moment and truly attempt to picture a Frederick Douglass offered the opportunity to peek into that room. Visualize him realizing that this young black woman is actually the first lady of the United States of America. Gee, he'd have to feel proud and surprised at how things have changed.

Now, visualize Sturtz attempting to shout down Michelle Obama. Mr. Douglass, no stranger to being heckled himself.

Now, if you can still think Mr. Douglass is thinking Sturtz is being mishandled by Michelle Obama...have at it. I have no idea how we'd have an honest dialogue. Goodness knows, America needs one.

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
92. I get the gist of it...but, I always got the gist of it.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 10:09 AM
Jun 2013

I was just startled by the use of a Frederick Douglass quote, a man African American children and the black community use as an example of boldness, strength and potential for progress as an example of why Michelle Obama, a benefactor of that particular struggle should have sat down for heckling, when the man you casually quoted did not.

So, yeah...I get the gist. There is no way Michelle Obama deserved her microphone while Sturtz had something to say. Her purpose at the moment was to allow herself to be used to satisfy the needs of someone else. It's a common thread throughout American history. African Americans are a disposable people.

Need stuff built, go get some black people in another land. Need free sex, prevent marriages, sell spouses and sleep with slaves and the help. Need to get a message across, shout over the black woman. Need to prove she had a duty to give the microphone up, provide a quote from a beloved black civil rights leader whose focus was rights for blacks, and use it as a rhetorical weapon against their concern.

And, no. I'm not accusing you of being a racist. I don't believe you are. I just wanted to give you an idea of how what you said, registered to me. We have a communication disconnect.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
60. Great point about executive orders
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:15 PM
Jun 2013

Some states still don't have gay marriage - it would make more sense to go into them and campaign rather than demand executive orders. Or demand Congress make anti-discrimination laws - the President would sign them. It's so ridiculous to be vicious towards the President on this issue!

Cha

(297,154 posts)
64. Thanks mark!
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:28 PM
Jun 2013

'It's also worth pointing out that executive orders, or the sort Ms Sturtz was demanding , do not have the force of standing law. As soon as the political winds change and there's another right winger in the Oval Office, any excecutive order can simply be undone by another executive order. Instead of putting so much energy into pushing for what amount to little more than stop-gap measure, why not focus your energies toward actually changing the law?"

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
65. An immature self promoter got treated as she deserved.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:31 PM
Jun 2013

Immature has a sad.

Act like an adult if you want to be respected as one.

Tarheel_Dem

(31,233 posts)
66. Apparently, you're not alone Mark. Amanda Turkel reports that Ms. Sturtz was....
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:43 PM
Jun 2013

shocked at the response she got from the attendees. She got a dose of the rudeness she doled out, and now she's playing victim. Gotta love it!

alp227

(32,018 posts)
67. Spot on, Mark! After thinking about it for a while I've concluded Strutz wanted her 15.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:43 PM
Jun 2013

I would've defended her to no end if I'd posted about Sturtz last night. Now that I've thought about it & read other DUers' opinions I've landed against Sturtz. Her stunt was self-serving and inconsiderate. At least Medea Benjamin kept her heckling ON TOPIC such as when she protested at the John Brennan confirmation hearings and Obama's national security speech.

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
71. Topical and in public
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:30 AM
Jun 2013

with cameras rolling so the issue got attention. The President even emphasized the importance of what she said during his speech and let her talk because it was topical. To me it was a presidential moment and a citizenship moment.

Dan Choi was also very good at getting heard. And brave and persistent. And loud. And always, always the epitome of an officer. A leader. A gentleman even as he raised a ruckus.

I am not against protest. If you protest, make it count. The message is the focus. Be heard by the right person. Confronting the family will turn the public against you and make you the story, not your message. It is such common sense that I doubt the intent in this case.

ruggerson

(17,483 posts)
87. Dan Choi was mercilessly crucified right here on DU
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 03:24 AM
Jun 2013

By many of the same folks weighing in against this woman.

I have no opinion either way on this particular contretemps. The Sturtz woman will never have a clue as to how Michelle Obama has experienced life in America and vice versa, rendering the entire "confrontation" essentially superficial and meaningless.

Certainly you remember how Dan Choi was treated here, Devon. It was not one of DU's finest hours.

markpkessinger

(8,392 posts)
111. I'm not exactly sure what your comment means . . .
Mon Jul 20, 2015, 12:04 AM
Jul 2015

. . . nor am I clear as to why you are commenting now, over two year after I posted this op. Could you clarify? Thanks!

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
112. Your post was used as a link on another post commenting on the BLM protest at NN. The new
Mon Jul 20, 2015, 10:05 AM
Jul 2015

post asked why anyone would scream at protestors who were making a lot of noise. What I answer was - so that the speaker could be heard. You might ask why your original post was a link in the first place.

This whole argument has been just about as crazy as DU has ever been while I have been on and a whole bunch of unrelated stuff has been thrown in. I did not look to see when your post was dated

Sorry.

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