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Thu Dec 27, 2012, 12:39 PM

My Grandmother has brain cancer

THU DEC 27, 2012 AT 08:30 AM PST
My Grandmother has brain cancer
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The doctors say she has a tumor pressing up against her brain. She no longer responds to people, and only days ago she had troubling recognizing my sister when she had gone to visit. She has developed pneumonia and the fever is getting worse. The doctors have asked if we would sign a "Do Not Resuscitate" waiver, or something of that sort.

And then it all comes home. This is what we are fighting about. All politics is personal. It's not just about the ideas or the principles, it is about actual people and how to make their lives better. After all my advocacy for health care reform this is when it hits home, because we love people and we want them to be safe and cared for, and because sometimes those people are real people we know and love and sometimes we will never meet them at all, but goddamit we can do better for people, better than this, and that is worth fighting for. I see the nurse caring for my Grandmother and I ask myself what can we do for her to make her life better, I think of that nurse's family and I wonder if they struggle and I ask myself what can we do to make their lives better, more fulfilling, more prosperous, so that this short struggle we all endure on this silly spinning orb can be made slightly better, if only for a time. I saw my grandmother yesterday for perhaps the last time, and though she was never awake I told her I loved her and I wished her peace with my father at last. I believe she heard me.

I don't pray a lot, but I prayed, and I gave thanks for the little I have and for the people I love. Ours is to take what is and make it better, not just for ourselves but for everyone and for those who shall come after us. That is worth fighting for.

So I offer this as a way of expressing emotions and as a way to honor my grandmother, the mother of my father.

To make the world a better place, one small act of kindness at a time.

I give blessings for my Grandmother, and to each and every person out there.

Peace and love to all



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update to add,
this is a really touching story and one that many of us will relate too...kp
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/12/27/1174146/-My-Grandmother-has-brain-cancer

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Thu Dec 27, 2012, 02:56 PM

1. Saving for when I have more time to read.

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Thu Dec 27, 2012, 03:34 PM

2. there is never a more personal time. When my mother

needed to go, it was OUR decision. I think of Terri and Mike Schiavo every time I see these things. I wish that person only the best. Time is the only friend you have at moments like that.

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