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alp227

(32,006 posts)
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 11:55 PM Nov 2012

Photo of Officer Giving Boots to Barefoot Man Warms Hearts Online



On a cold November night in Times Square, Officer Lawrence Deprimo was working a counterterrorism post when he encountered an older, barefooted homeless man. The officer disappeared for a moment, then returned with a new pair of boots, and knelt to help the man put them on.

The act of kindness would have gone unnoticed and mostly forgotten, had it not been for a tourist from Arizona.

Her snapshot — taken with her cellphone on Nov. 14 and posted to the New York Police Department’s official Facebook page late Tuesday — has made Officer Deprimo an overnight Internet hero.

By Wednesday evening, the post had been viewed 1.6 million times, and had attracted nearly 275,000 “likes” and more than 16,000 comments — a runaway hit for a Police Department that waded warily onto the social media platform this summer with mostly canned photos of gun seizures, award ceremonies and the police commissioner.

full: http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/29/nyregion/photo-of-officer-giving-boots-to-barefoot-man-warms-hearts-online.html
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Photo of Officer Giving Boots to Barefoot Man Warms Hearts Online (Original Post) alp227 Nov 2012 OP
I don't usually have much good to say about cops but K&R for this one MotherPetrie Nov 2012 #1
Cops are like any other group of people: Chorophyll Nov 2012 #35
Yeah...A good deed in a weary world.... infidel dog Nov 2012 #36
"A good deed in a weary world." Aldo Leopold Nov 2012 #37
Me, neither. Iggo Nov 2012 #42
great story joeunderdog Nov 2012 #2
Well done, officer, well done. nt. OldDem2012 Nov 2012 #3
My best friend is a cop. lumberjack_jeff Nov 2012 #4
Bravo! AlbertCat Nov 2012 #31
Thank you! hedgehog Nov 2012 #5
Recommend. I saw this on FB, and I can only babylonsister Nov 2012 #6
Not all are cynical...good work officer. Historic NY Nov 2012 #7
Now this is a great example of real community policing Smilo Nov 2012 #8
We usually hear only about the bad cops. Stinky The Clown Nov 2012 #9
We need more cops like this. MynameisBlarney Nov 2012 #10
My animosity toward cops in general has been lessoned by this humanitarian gesture from officer 1620rock Nov 2012 #11
My animosity toward cops in general has been lessoned AlbertCat Nov 2012 #32
Let us follow his example this winter. Do something for someone who has less. nolabear Nov 2012 #12
Heartwarming story. Beacool Nov 2012 #13
I saw a driver giving woman street corner beggar a jacket. ErikJ Nov 2012 #14
THAT is a FABULOUS idea!!! calimary Nov 2012 #16
You should have more respect and not call them a beggar. nt RandiFan1290 Nov 2012 #20
So she wasn't begging? AlexSatan Nov 2012 #23
I was thinking about using "pan-handler" but I thought that might be worse. Or "spanger" ErikJ Nov 2012 #43
How about just needy? EC Nov 2012 #46
A person who runs is a runner... Lightbulb_on Nov 2012 #53
A rude person is an asshole RandiFan1290 Nov 2012 #57
Just seems like there is a push... Lightbulb_on Nov 2012 #58
mmhmm RandiFan1290 Nov 2012 #60
Good... Lightbulb_on Nov 2012 #61
Stories like this are so touching. montana_hazeleyes Nov 2012 #15
This brought tears to my eyes. CADEMOCRAT7 Nov 2012 #17
Wish I could rec more than once! mrsadm Nov 2012 #18
Officer Deprimo: Hero. JNelson6563 Nov 2012 #19
It's Random acts of Kindness that bring a tear to your eye. sheshe2 Nov 2012 #21
Anyone else think this might have been staged? The pic taker is a PD communications director... KurtNYC Nov 2012 #22
No Renew Deal Nov 2012 #27
I have seen cops help people here plenty of times KurtNYC Nov 2012 #30
His cynicism is well-founded in this case. AtheistCrusader Nov 2012 #34
Of course it was. AtheistCrusader Nov 2012 #33
I love New York ! KurtNYC Nov 2012 #40
Unfortunately they need help, but that pair of shoes, or that 2$ isn't the help they need. AtheistCrusader Nov 2012 #45
I hear you. Although I have seen plenty of homeless and talked to a dozens, I have only KurtNYC Nov 2012 #67
No - cop didn't even know the pic was being taken, or was taken until sent to the PD. dbackjon Nov 2012 #50
The photo was taken by a PR Rep from another police department. AtheistCrusader Nov 2012 #54
It was all over the news here she was dbackjon Nov 2012 #62
Can't you accept that people sometimes embellish bullshit to fabricate 'good stories'? AtheistCrusader Nov 2012 #64
You are a sad, patheitc person dbackjon Nov 2012 #65
No, I'm a skeptic. AtheistCrusader Nov 2012 #66
If you read the NYTimes piece then you saw this paragraph KurtNYC Nov 2012 #68
rookie datasuspect Nov 2012 #24
Even if it was, does it matter? AlexSatan Nov 2012 #25
That cop is a good guy Renew Deal Nov 2012 #26
cops and other people that work out on the street at night Enrique Nov 2012 #28
I consider it my Karmic duty! robbob Nov 2012 #38
And one more thing... It's cold outside Renew Deal Nov 2012 #29
After seeing a blind panhandler walking into a friend's exclusive high rise appartment... TheBlackAdder Nov 2012 #39
K&R...... skeewee08 Nov 2012 #41
Nice to see... midnight Nov 2012 #44
cool Liberal_in_LA Nov 2012 #47
more from article Liberal_in_LA Nov 2012 #48
Thank you officer!!! jschurchin Nov 2012 #49
now thats protecting and servinf at its finest willhe Nov 2012 #51
great read alp227 pipewrench Nov 2012 #52
justice in a sad world. Beowulf42 Nov 2012 #55
I've ONLY had great experiences with the NYPD dorkzilla Nov 2012 #56
They interviewed the woman who took the pic, and the cop, on GMT (BBC news show) redqueen Nov 2012 #59
K&R...we need more people like this! NYC Liberal Nov 2012 #63
He's not wearing them thesquanderer Dec 2012 #69

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
35. Cops are like any other group of people:
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:53 PM
Nov 2012

some are bad. Some are good. Most are in-between.

This is a really, really good one.

joeunderdog

(2,563 posts)
2. great story
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 11:59 PM
Nov 2012

seems like every time a police vid or pic goes viral, it's not good news. nice to see the good stuff.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
4. My best friend is a cop.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:02 AM
Nov 2012

I think he started out like this, and still may be this person deep inside, but police work renders most people, him included, cynical.

Rec'd, because I'd like remind police officers of the ideals that brought them to the job.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
7. Not all are cynical...good work officer.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:10 AM
Nov 2012

The officer has kept the receipt in his vest since then, he said, “to remind me that sometimes people have it worse.”

1620rock

(2,218 posts)
11. My animosity toward cops in general has been lessoned by this humanitarian gesture from officer
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:51 AM
Nov 2012

Deprimo. May God keep him safe in the performance of his duties. We need so many more like him.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
32. My animosity toward cops in general has been lessoned
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:43 PM
Nov 2012

Cops are individuals, like any other group.

nolabear

(41,936 posts)
12. Let us follow his example this winter. Do something for someone who has less.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:54 AM
Nov 2012

Good for him. Good for him.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
13. Heartwarming story.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 01:03 AM
Nov 2012

There's good to be found in the most unexpected places. Bless the young officer, he's a credit to his family and to the department.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
14. I saw a driver giving woman street corner beggar a jacket.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 01:16 AM
Nov 2012

She put it on immediately and seemed quite happpy. That gave me an idea to always keep old clothes in the car that I was going to take to Goodwill to give to beggars.

calimary

(81,125 posts)
16. THAT is a FABULOUS idea!!!
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 01:27 AM
Nov 2012

Last edited Thu Nov 29, 2012, 02:18 AM - Edit history (1)

Excellent!!!! Winter's coming. They're cold. Especially if their "home" is a freeway underpass. The photo reminds me of a modern-day St. Martin of Tours.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
43. I was thinking about using "pan-handler" but I thought that might be worse. Or "spanger"
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 04:14 PM
Nov 2012

but that is more for kids sitting on sidewalks I think. Maybe "corner donation sign-holder"?

EC

(12,287 posts)
46. How about just needy?
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 04:41 PM
Nov 2012

Is there something wrong with being a needy person? or downtrodden? down and out? I don't think these are slams on the person, but descriptions of circumstance.

 

Lightbulb_on

(315 posts)
58. Just seems like there is a push...
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 08:56 AM
Nov 2012

... to intentionally call things something other than what they are. As if that will magically change the homeless guy into something he isn't.

Feelgood BS..

CADEMOCRAT7

(583 posts)
17. This brought tears to my eyes.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 01:56 AM
Nov 2012

When I read this in the Times today, it brought tears to my eyes. God Bless Officer Deprimo for caring enough to do such a kind gesture.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
22. Anyone else think this might have been staged? The pic taker is a PD communications director...
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 11:21 AM
Nov 2012
The photo was taken by Jennifer Foster, a civilian communications director for the Pinal County Sheriff’s Office in Arizona. She said the moment resonated for personal reasons: She remembered as a young girl seeing her father, a 32-year veteran of the Phoenix police force, buy food for a homeless man.


http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/29/nyregion/photo-of-officer-giving-boots-to-barefoot-man-warms-hearts-online.html?_r=0

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
30. I have seen cops help people here plenty of times
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:36 PM
Nov 2012

but this is a media driven town with a media mogul mayor and the woman who took this picture also works for a police department as a communications director. She seems either pretty observant to have seen the cop go shopping, come back, etc on a cold night, or else this is a story to boost tourism and holiday shopping in post-Sandy NYC.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
34. His cynicism is well-founded in this case.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:51 PM
Nov 2012

Walk around between Times Square and the Meat Packing district. You'll eventually bump into the guy.

Pro Tip: Look for the guy that STILL isn't wearing shoes.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
33. Of course it was.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:47 PM
Nov 2012

That guy has been around forever. He carries a sign sometimes that says nice things about the cops, like 'give them a raise'. The cops know him.

He never wears shoes. They know it. Everyone who knows him knows it. He walks around barefoot in snowstorms. Doesn't care. It's his thing I guess.

Next time you see him, or the media sees him, he will still have no shoes.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
40. I love New York !
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 03:53 PM
Nov 2012

thanks for the confirmation.

In my neighborhood there is a lady who perpetually needs "only two more dollars for nice hot cup of soup" even though there is a free soup kitchen 500 feet away from her on West 82nd.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
45. Unfortunately they need help, but that pair of shoes, or that 2$ isn't the help they need.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 04:22 PM
Nov 2012

It may keep them alive (well, the guy will just sell or lose the shoes, I don't think anyone knows what he does with them) but true help comes in a very different form.

Half the battle is providing it, and the other half is getting some of them to accept it. (Especially after bad experiences in the past with caregivers, psychologists, pharma, you name it)

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
67. I hear you. Although I have seen plenty of homeless and talked to a dozens, I have only
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 05:36 PM
Nov 2012

the faintest idea what a horror it is to be a the mercy of this world, or to go through the shelter system or mental health services or the jail system or to live in a railway tunnel or, all of the above.

To me this story going viral and the response here shows me that many cannot believe, or just don't question, that there are people who are essentially professional beggars. They have a location and business hours and they will fight for their spot. The good ones have their own unique schtick like there used to be a guy in front of Big Nick's (77th and Bwy), and he would just complement everyone that walked by. With a big smile, he would look at me and say "Hey Paul McCartney..Lookin sharp'!" and he never asked for money but he made you feel like giving him some. There is a guy who plays loud bad saxophone on the L train (which is more like extortion than panhandling). There was a pro from Brazil who could cry endlessly; he worked at 87th and Bwy in the late 1990s.

And I also learned here that few can imagine the NYC police department doing viral PR. Perhaps it seems too hip for the police to pull off (but they did).



 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
50. No - cop didn't even know the pic was being taken, or was taken until sent to the PD.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 05:49 PM
Nov 2012

Grow a heart

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
54. The photo was taken by a PR Rep from another police department.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 06:41 PM
Nov 2012

Interesting they omitted that detail.
Also interesting they omitted the detail that the police know this guy, and he's been walking around barefoot for years.

If a news crew went out and found the guy right now, he would still not have any shoes on.


Edit: Have you ever taken a picture of a cop from about 15-20 feet? They tend to notice that shit.

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
62. It was all over the news here she was
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 12:33 PM
Nov 2012

Can't you just accept that sometimes good stories ARE JUST FUCK ING THAT?




AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
64. Can't you accept that people sometimes embellish bullshit to fabricate 'good stories'?
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 02:19 PM
Nov 2012

There are people who have observed and spoken to the individual the boots were offered to. It is known that he knows the police officers, and they know him.
The 'viral' version of the story omits details that might cause people to suspect it was staged, or something less than the noble gallantry it was presented here as.

The guy doesn't wear shoes. The cops know that. So, where does that leave us with the story of a rookie cop offering shoes to a shoeless man, with 'no idea' anyone (a PR flack for a police department) was taking a picture of the event?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
66. No, I'm a skeptic.
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 02:33 PM
Nov 2012

I don't blindly consume any bullshit people hand me on a plate, regardless of how 'feel good' it may appear.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
68. If you read the NYTimes piece then you saw this paragraph
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 05:51 PM
Nov 2012

where they basically tell you that this is a police department generated piece of PR which is on the NYPD Facebook page and they congratulate themselves on how effective it has been:

By Wednesday evening, the post had been viewed 1.6 million times, and had attracted nearly 275,000 “likes” and more than 16,000 comments — a runaway hit for a Police Department that waded warily onto the social media platform this summer with mostly canned photos of gun seizures, award ceremonies and the police commissioner.
...
“This is definitely the most viral,” said Barbara Chen, a spokeswoman for the department who helps manage its Facebook page.


http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/29/nyregion/photo-of-officer-giving-boots-to-barefoot-man-warms-hearts-online.html?_r=0

Also the article does not say that the officer 'did not know the picture was being taken' -- it says "He was not warned before the photo went online."
 

AlexSatan

(535 posts)
25. Even if it was, does it matter?
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:10 PM
Nov 2012

Unless the boots were taken away after the photo, a good thing was done.

Renew Deal

(81,847 posts)
26. That cop is a good guy
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:14 PM
Nov 2012

I've seen too many people in NYC ignore people like this. One time I saw a homeless advocate that was raising money doing nothing for a woman freezing on 5th ave and 57th street. I said something to him about it.

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
28. cops and other people that work out on the street at night
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:16 PM
Nov 2012

give a lot to homeless people.

I worked for a long time overnight at a gas station, it was a city with few lights so homeless people gathered there for safety since it was lit up. Myself and almost all the other clerks regularly gave them money, cops gave them money, cab drivers, EMTs, anyone else who faces the people in need on a regular basis.

I came to see it as a kind of tax. Homeless people in large part around the country are being supported by low-paid workers who happen to work at night. (cops aren't low-paid, but the other workers are).

robbob

(3,522 posts)
38. I consider it my Karmic duty!
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 03:44 PM
Nov 2012

Or "good luck charm" or call it what you will. If I have change in my pocket (and here in Canada that can be upwards of 10$, given the loonie and twonie) I hand it out to anyone who asks for it, and consider myself lucky that I can afford to do so.

Renew Deal

(81,847 posts)
29. And one more thing... It's cold outside
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 12:17 PM
Nov 2012

It's been pretty cold here, especially at night. 30's to 40's.

TheBlackAdder

(28,167 posts)
39. After seeing a blind panhandler walking into a friend's exclusive high rise appartment...
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 03:47 PM
Nov 2012

where he turned out to live.

The cynical side of me wonders if this guy didn't park outside of a store that sold shoes to get a pair so he could sell later on for alcohol.

I hope my second thought on this isn't true, that he really needed shoes, but it's too convenient.

===

I'll buy food for homeless folks that I know are destitute, but not the casual panhandler who approaches me or works the street corners.

 

Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
48. more from article
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 04:46 PM
Nov 2012

As the man walked slowly down Seventh Avenue on his heels, Officer DePrimo went into a Skechers shoe store at about 9:30 p.m. “We were just kind of shocked,” said Jose Cano, 28, a manager working at the store that night. “Most of us are New Yorkers and we just kind of pass by that kind of thing. Especially in this neighborhood.”

Mr. Cano volunteered to give the officer his employee discount to bring down the regular $100 price of the all-weather boots to a little more than $75. The officer has kept the receipt in his vest since then, he said, “to remind me that sometimes people have it worse.”

Beowulf42

(204 posts)
55. justice in a sad world.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 07:25 PM
Nov 2012

This is true police work. Check on officer Mark Zylawy, Portland Police Department. He did it right. And so does his brother in Superior Montana. A highway patrolman.

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
56. I've ONLY had great experiences with the NYPD
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 11:38 PM
Nov 2012

When I was a kid, I was what they classify as a "throw away"; parents didnt want me, I was emancipated but had no means to take care of myself. I went from friend to friend, living at various times in NYC and the near Northern Suburbs. I can't even tell you the number of times I was confronted by the cops under suspicion of being either a street person or a prostitute. I was always very respectful toward them and explained my situation. And you know what? Time and again, the officers would disappear then reappear bearing food and hot tea or coffee. I'm sure it helped that I was a white female, but damned if those guys weren't the nicest bunch of people ever. And this middle-aged woman hasn't forgotten the kindness shown to a teenage throw away for one minute. I love these people. Flame away if you want, but they're MOSTLY good people. The bad ones get all the press.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
59. They interviewed the woman who took the pic, and the cop, on GMT (BBC news show)
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 09:18 AM
Nov 2012

May this be a ripple that turns into a wave. That would make for a wonderful holiday season.

thesquanderer

(11,972 posts)
69. He's not wearing them
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 03:42 AM
Dec 2012
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/12/03/nyregion/barefoot-homeless-man-says-hes-grateful-for-boots.html

The implication of the article is that he doesn't wear them because they're too valuable to wear.

My suspicion is that he doesn't wear them because, when panhandling, he collects a lot more if he's not wearing them.

I saw him panhandling (barefoot) on a train on Thursday evening. Yeah, I gave him a buck.
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