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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsDid anyone here ever think David Petraeus was totally hot?
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99th_Monkey
(19,326 posts)TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)for military officers and men in uniform--married one of those.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)My dad was a Marine, and I used to think no man could ever look bad in their dress uniform. I have just revised that opinion.
demosincebirth
(12,536 posts)aquart
(69,014 posts)amandabeech
(9,893 posts)He's well-preserved for 60, but I don't think that he's handsome.
He's also on the short side for me.
The bottom line, though, is that he brought more soldiers in for that surge, got more people (U.S. & Iraqis killed), and all for nothing. Iraq is a mess. Same for Afghanistan.
Because of those surges that caused so many unnecessary deaths, he's ugly inside.
Lionessa
(3,894 posts)Just curious because though men have trouble seeing past looks, most women don't hold that in such high esteem. We certainly have our physical "no ways", like some won't be interested in a shorter man, or an obese man, or a bald man, or whatever and/or some combination thereof. But our "looks" criteria are generally incredibly more tolerant than a man's.
I would expect most women would find him good looking enough to get to know, and then perhaps he is a quite a charmer, apparently he was to at least one woman,
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)and a lot of us thank you all whole-heartedly for that.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)Just not the guy I would expect to ruin his career over a woman.
Lionessa
(3,894 posts)My experience suggests most women wouldn't comment on a man's looks regarding attraction unless he had some obvious issues as mentioned above.
I hope very few women judge books by their covers as you seem to, and hope men as well get over that.
One last thought, perhaps you've met the man and have some valid reason for your assessment outside of his looks.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)Lionessa
(3,894 posts)to his/her appearance when commenting about attraction. Finding out a woman did it to a man is just disgusting in my opinion, since as women seem we spend our whole lives trying to be judged by something other than our looks, so we know how unfair and totally sickening it is, to do the exact same thing we mostly all hate having done to us.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)Edit: Not even a comment. A rhetorical question.
Lionessa
(3,894 posts)Though if I've made you stop and think about the POV your OP presents regarding the importance of looks or as you describe it hotness, then all is good.
I am not the type to notice a flaw in a POV and judge an entire person by that alone. Will I keep it in mind during pertinent discussions, yes. Will I let it flavor every post you make on every topic, no.
Hence I am not reducing you one comment.
sarcasmo
(23,968 posts)Ask Ann Romney.
dimbear
(6,271 posts)a la izquierda
(11,791 posts)I will now proceed to have horrible nightmares.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)yortsed snacilbuper
(7,939 posts)but, you still have turd!
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)I don't particularly love a man in a uniform.
Enrique
(27,461 posts)then yes, Petraeus is among the hotter of those.
Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)Whisp
(24,096 posts)but each to their own. the hotness could be in some people's view of Power as hot.
he doesn't look so hot shit to me at all. Maybe he's a charmer, I don't know, don't care.
ejbr
(5,856 posts)lonestarnot
(77,097 posts)comprehend.
calico1
(8,391 posts)Plus he is very smart and successful which also adds to the attraction. I don't find him "hot" but he would not gross me out. I think he is an attractive, interesting older man.
Oilwellian
(12,647 posts)You find a war criminal attractive?
coalition_unwilling
(14,180 posts)2 wars (Iraq and Afghanistan) while committing those war crimes.
calico1
(8,391 posts)And I don't appreciate that insinuation.
I was just going by his general appearance and the fact I think someone in his position would be an interesting conversationalist, that's all. I don't have the hots for him, geez.
Raine
(30,540 posts)TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)...yeah, if you mean in a Barney Fife sort of way...
Wait, what? Are you kidding me? Hell no!... No. Not hot!
TYY
renie408
(9,854 posts)Generic Other
(28,979 posts)Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)JHB
(37,158 posts)Canuckistanian
(42,290 posts)Until I see him in a shirtless fireman's working garb.
renie408
(9,854 posts)What the heck?
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)forestpath
(3,102 posts)UTUSN
(70,684 posts)elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)ewwww
flamingdem
(39,313 posts)happy to see me?
coalition_unwilling
(14,180 posts)loli phabay
(5,580 posts)a la izquierda
(11,791 posts)No, no. No. No.
That is all.
BigDemVoter
(4,150 posts)BUT. . . He IS an asshole.
PufPuf23
(8,769 posts)he was not a narcissic sadistic amoral idiot. Looks don't really matter except they do in human face-to-face exchanges.
Petraeus had no business in a Democratic Party Administration nor IMHO in the USA military or intelligence community because of his choice of morality long before any recent incident.
His wife was the daughter of the headmaster or equivalent at West Point. What a slimy social climber.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)PufPuf23
(8,769 posts)Amoral (correctly spelled with one m) means lacking in morals.
Immoral (2 m's) means counter to established moral norms.
The man made decisions on essentially a Risk game to drop bombs with innocent human lives as collateral damages to support lies that to his "success".
His affairs were immoral as in counter to social norms.
Too bad our leaders can't be held accountable for crimes of war, covert intelligence agency operations, and the dirty contracting of military outsourcing.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)Amoral may refer to: Amorality, the absence of morality; for example, a stone, a chair, or the sky may be considered amoral.
Human beings are not amoral and neither are the decisions made pertaining to war.
PufPuf23
(8,769 posts)An individual human being can be amoral and the psychiatrists/psychlogists no doubt have a name for the personality disorder and/ or biological chemistry problem. One could imagine the syndrome is treatment resistent given human history.
Look in a dictionary, a human can be amoral.
Wars based and continued upon lies for gains for specific individuals and/or social or political groups are amoral IMHO. Lower level aggressive particpants may be immoral or victims - yes I am criticizing the social respect paid to the USA MIC.
The leaders that tell the lies and control the decisions are War Criminals akin to those the USA lead moral court prosecution post WW-II.
Also geez I thought we were on the same side at DU.
I used to spend much time in MI in 80s-90s courtesy as a consultant to CMS Energy, various financal entities, and the State of MI I really like the area between Traverse City down to Muskegon.
hobbit709
(41,694 posts)Logical
(22,457 posts)elleng
(130,876 posts)Glimmer of Hope
(5,823 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)Lars39
(26,109 posts)Face will show it.
elleng
(130,876 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)lawsy mercy, momma!
amandabeech
(9,893 posts)Now, if he could be stretched to at least 5'11" and preferably a couple inches more.
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Like a stereotype of a Southern redneck or a Midwestern farmer.
DesertRat
(27,995 posts)or the teeth.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)he has that simpleton farmer look.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)protect our future
(1,156 posts)is hot or not. But if I get to know him personally and I like him, then I start noticing his looks, especially certain parts of his anatomy. Media figures, entertainers, sports figures--anyone in the public eye is consequently eliminated from consideration by me as to whether or not they're hot since I don't know them personally. Except for Joe Biden, who is hot. The most drop dead hot gorgeous man in the world is the one I'm in love with, but before I fell in love with him he just seemed average. On Petraeus and whether or not he's hot, I never noticed and have no opinion about it.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)LisaL
(44,973 posts)BlueMan Votes
(903 posts)but i never have.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)arthritisR_US
(7,287 posts)Justitia
(9,316 posts)Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)forestpath
(3,102 posts)opposite, no matter what he looked like. But I wouldn't find Petraeus hot in regular clothes, either.
Prometheus Bound
(3,489 posts)Maybe for a 10-year-old it would be ok.
catbyte
(34,376 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Jutta412
(1 post)Yes, but I am 32 and have been going through a dry spell. Seriously, though, he's a little on the skinny side but I've been accused of being a neurotic gym bunny myself, and I'm sure he doesn't run out of breath after five minutes, which is more than I can say for my ex. I don't deduct beauty points on men for slightly crooked teeth, come to think of it, he has more than my ex... My point being, at least he takes care of himself... at 60 he still has his hair, teeth, and can see his feet when he looks down. Might not agree with everything he says, but a conversation with him would definitely not be boring, since he seems intelligent (most of the time).
I'm annoying myself by even being interested in this story--- having dealt with a sociopathic ex (previously mentioned) who tried to destroy my life after I left him thereby destroying his own life in the process-- I actually feel a little sympathy for "Peaches". Can't help but think she had it in for him. She probably knew on some level that her imagined rival in FL would pitch a fit over the threatening email and that Patraeus would eventually get busted. While most people would probably hide under a rock, Broadwell is practically posing in front of windows so the paparazzi can take pictures of her! Despite her own life going to pieces (a life that includes two young kids and a husband). I think she's enjoying the revenge... and all of this conveniently weeks before her book comes out in paperback! Beware of narcissists.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Jennicut
(25,415 posts)Our President and VP on the other hand...now they are hot!
Maybe Paula Broadwell thought he was interesting due to his powerful position?
I guess it is all about what you do with the power you have and how you treat others. Certain Republicans would certainly be more attractive if they were not sexist, disgusting men who want to tell women what to do with their own bodies.
eShirl
(18,490 posts)my apologies to chipmunks
LittlestStar
(224 posts)fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Wimpy looking to me....I think his medals hypnotize some females....and other percs......surely not his body or looks....
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)I guess some women find war criminals to be hot. Not me, even if he looked like George Clooney.
War Criminal = Complete turn-off!
Beacool
(30,247 posts)Powerful yes, hot no.
REP
(21,691 posts)This does not meet the SoP of this Forum.