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Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 08:50 PM Nov 2012

Need help with email response to RW evangelical friend-of-family

This person is in Akron (OH) and sent this tonight:

I just talked with your Mom, who mentioned that you were out campaigning for Nobama today???????? Why??????? I have always had the greatest respect for you and you are trying to put a baby killer in office!!!!! I am so disapointed.


Okay then. This is an old family friend of my parents who I haven't laid eyes on in over 30 years, but have kept in touch with. Thinking the below, but would like input before I send it.

-(Personal greetings and niceties)-

I appreciate your concerns about abortion, so I have to ask - did President Bush ever do anything to alleviate this? He campaigned heavily on this issue, and had majorities in both the House and Senate from 2001-2006. Nothing has changed! Governor Romney can speak to this issue, but he would be in the same impotent position once elected. As we share a faith, I have to ask you - have you considered all of the aspects of the Governor and his campaign? There is no such thing as pro-abortion, XXXXXX. The goals I support have been proven over the last 3 decades to dramatically lower the instances of abortion - and I am happy to send you Department of Health statistics to back that up if you are interested. One plan is working, the other is just campaign rhetoric.

What I will ask you to think on and pray intently about -- you are advocating voting for a man who believes Jesus and Satan are brothers. All because he dislikes abortion as much as you do.

How do you reconcile this?

As always, I love you dearly, and please understand if my reply seems a bit short (I am tired), but I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it. I would love to discuss this with you further. Please feel free to call me at any time at XXXXXXXX.


I am exhausted - and this sounds really curt. Would love input before I send it. Help?
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Need help with email response to RW evangelical friend-of-family (Original Post) Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 OP
I don't think it sounds curt.... ohheckyeah Nov 2012 #1
Agreed, not curt in the slightest. Indpndnt Nov 2012 #17
Sounds pretty damn even handed Dyedinthewoolliberal Nov 2012 #2
My dear Ruby... CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2012 #3
Yeah - I am going to leave it for y'all for tonight and send it tomorrow. Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 #7
It's good to see you too! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2012 #13
I guess "Fuck off" is out of the question? renie408 Nov 2012 #4
Heh. Tell me about it. Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 #12
I would make the 2nd paragraph the first one arcane1 Nov 2012 #5
Reframe as a lede. EXCELLENT point. Thank you. nt Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 #8
Love this! Nicely edited, arcane1! calimary Nov 2012 #39
You could ask her this: rightsideout Nov 2012 #6
There is that, but my goal isn't to kill an argument Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 #16
Sounds pretty good to me landolfi Nov 2012 #9
Welcome to DU, landolfi! calimary Nov 2012 #40
Send it Angry Dragon Nov 2012 #10
Sounds good. I really like the line... PATXgirl Nov 2012 #11
Welcome to DU, PATXgirl! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2012 #14
Well, a hearty welcome to DU. Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 #19
Thanks Peggy and Ruby!! I'm enjoying DU very much. PATXgirl Nov 2012 #21
"I'll likely never vote republican again."-----"likely"? LIKELY?? Even now, JUST "LIKELY"?! WinkyDink Nov 2012 #35
Welcome to DU, PATXgirl! calimary Nov 2012 #41
Calimary, thanks! I have already early-voted for Obama. PATXgirl Nov 2012 #47
I would point out that, historically there have been fewer abortions Jackpine Radical Nov 2012 #15
Why don't you add something about all the babies Bush KILLED? Zoeisright Nov 2012 #18
I have a few suggestions... Spazito Nov 2012 #20
I was so hoping you would pop in on this one. Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 #25
I am glad to help! Spazito Nov 2012 #27
"I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it" WOW way cool kydo Nov 2012 #22
Welcome to DU! Ruby the Liberal Nov 2012 #23
Thank you! kydo Nov 2012 #26
No kidding! It's my favorite too! And even though you're not a new arrival, glad you're here, kydo! calimary Nov 2012 #42
I give you credit for even trying Robyn66 Nov 2012 #24
If you want you could add the R tendency to get us into wars which kills treestar Nov 2012 #28
bravo ChristianDemocratMom Nov 2012 #29
Welcome to DU, ChristianDemocratMom! calimary Nov 2012 #43
thank you! ChristianDemocratMom Nov 2012 #46
It'd only substitute '...' for the '!' after 'Nothing has changed' as he sounds over-emotional. freshwest Nov 2012 #30
So Obama's a "baby killer" but nearly 250,000 died while Bush was in office. Initech Nov 2012 #31
Don't waste your energy..... RagAss Nov 2012 #32
I would attach this link. LittlestStar Nov 2012 #33
Yes, I read that, excellent. freshwest Nov 2012 #37
Welcome to DU, LittlestStar! calimary Nov 2012 #44
Well, I'd be inclined to write "Sorry you're voting for an avaricious and mendacious out-sourcer." WinkyDink Nov 2012 #34
Romney d_r Nov 2012 #36
... FieryLocks Nov 2012 #38
Welcome to DU, FieryLocks! Wow! So many new DUers here! calimary Nov 2012 #45
I think your response is excellent, corneliamcgillicutty Nov 2012 #48
I must be in a different time zone... mikki35 Nov 2012 #49
Abortion rates do not change when abortion is illegal RainDog Nov 2012 #50

Indpndnt

(2,391 posts)
17. Agreed, not curt in the slightest.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:02 PM
Nov 2012

If the OP is still worried, she should file it for a day and re-read tomorrow, but I think it's ready to go now.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,574 posts)
3. My dear Ruby...
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 08:54 PM
Nov 2012

I think it sounds great, not curt at all. Why don't you sit on it till tomorrow, after you've had some rest, and then look at it again.

I would not say this is rude or anything, but it is thoughtful and intelligent.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
7. Yeah - I am going to leave it for y'all for tonight and send it tomorrow.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 08:57 PM
Nov 2012

Needs a second set of eyes, but want to send it tomorrow so she has time to think about it (and call me, but I doubt that will happen).

Good to see you, Peggy.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
5. I would make the 2nd paragraph the first one
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 08:56 PM
Nov 2012

Low-information single-issue people will likely not read the entire thing, so start with the good stuff:

-(Personal greetings and niceties)-

What I will ask you to think on and pray intently about -- you are advocating voting for a man who believes Jesus and Satan are brothers. All because he dislikes abortion as much as you do.

How do you reconcile this?

I appreciate your concerns about abortion, so I have to ask - did President Bush ever do anything to alleviate this? He campaigned heavily on this issue, and had majorities in both the House and Senate from 2001-2006. Nothing has changed! Governor Romney can speak to this issue, but he would be in the same impotent position once elected. As we share a faith, I have to ask you - have you considered all of the aspects of the Governor and his campaign? There is no such thing as pro-abortion, XXXXXX. The goals I support have been proven over the last 3 decades to dramatically lower the instances of abortion - and I am happy to send you Department of Health statistics to back that up if you are interested. One plan is working, the other is just campaign rhetoric.

As always, I love you dearly, and please understand if my reply seems a bit short (I am tired), but I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it. I would love to discuss this with you further. Please feel free to call me at any time at XXXXXXXX.

calimary

(81,193 posts)
39. Love this! Nicely edited, arcane1!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:06 PM
Nov 2012

Works for me.

And it doesn't sound curt or short-tempered OR rude, at all. I particularly love the line "I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it." BEAUTIFUL! Certainly describes how I feel, too!

rightsideout

(978 posts)
6. You could ask her this:
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 08:56 PM
Nov 2012

"How much time in jail do you think a woman should serve for having an abortion."

If this family friend is saying a woman is a baby killer, then lets talk about the punishment and put it on them to decide what the punishment should be. Tell them the answer can't have anything to do with God. It has to be an earthly punishment in the court of law.

This usually shuts them up.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
16. There is that, but my goal isn't to kill an argument
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:02 PM
Nov 2012

as she is 600 miles from me - I want her where my Mom is, which is not voting for POTUS at all (better than voting for Willard, and I'll take that). How do I diffuse her without pissing her off? (And - that argument WILL piss off the 'pro-life-before-they're-born' crowd, because they have NO answer to it.)

landolfi

(234 posts)
9. Sounds pretty good to me
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 08:58 PM
Nov 2012

Supposing I was one of those "anybody but Obama" folks, one of the fundamental problems with Mitt Romney is his total lack of integrity. What does he stand for? It's impossible to say, but it seems to be whatever the audience wants to hear. Is that moral leadership? And what exactly is his position on any issue, much less choice? Kennedy was accusing him in 94 of going from pro-life to pro-choice, he became governor as a pro-choice candidate, then at RNC he's back to pro-life again. Why did he change his positions? This as I read somewhere here is one of the ways the press has given this lying SOS weasel a complete pass--how can you make such a major life decision reversal with no explanation? It's one of the many elephants in the room. I think the difficulty with R$ is there are so many of these it's hard to know where to begin.

calimary

(81,193 posts)
40. Welcome to DU, landolfi!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:10 PM
Nov 2012

Good point you make - when wrongney tells one crowd of arch-CONservatives he's a "severe conservative," and then turns around and tells the rest of us during one of the debates that he loves teachers and first responders and won't cut FEMA, is he lying to the "severe conservative" crowd, or is he lying to us?

Glad you're here! Just a few more days - and we need you!






Now get to work.

PATXgirl

(192 posts)
11. Sounds good. I really like the line...
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 08:59 PM
Nov 2012

"I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it."

This election cycle I've been told "how can I be a Christian and vote for a democrat?" And when I corrected some propaganda that a RW friend posted a bunch of her friends said they would pray for the scales to be removed from my eyes.

As I told someone last night, I've voted republican before but seeing the direction they are going and how hateful it's becoming I'll likely never vote republican again.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
19. Well, a hearty welcome to DU.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:10 PM
Nov 2012


You are in good numbers here. Lots of liberal Christians on this site. Sorry to hear about the scales remarks. I hit those back with fruit and Matthew 5 and 25:35-46 - but it shouldn't have to come to that, you know? The Jesus of the bible is the polar opposite of today's GOP and their priorities.
 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
35. "I'll likely never vote republican again."-----"likely"? LIKELY?? Even now, JUST "LIKELY"?!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:49 PM
Nov 2012

What. Ever.

calimary

(81,193 posts)
41. Welcome to DU, PATXgirl!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:13 PM
Nov 2012

That's one of my favorite lines as well. Any of the holier-than-thou folks over there on that side of the aisle who scolds us and patronizes us ever read The Beatitudes? I can't ever vote republi-CON and call myself a Beatitudes-believing Christian. Glad you're here! We need you. Time is short. And this election isn't clinched yet.






Now get to work.

PATXgirl

(192 posts)
47. Calimary, thanks! I have already early-voted for Obama.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:31 PM
Nov 2012


As to the other poster who commented about "likely"... I was raised in a staunch Dem /union family and married into a VERY conservative Repub family. There were points they presented, moderate points, that line up with my values. For most of my adult life, I categorized myself as a moderate and non-partisan...judging the merits of candidates individually before voting. Since the addition of the Tea party, I cannot support the Republicans views anymore.

However, I have a friend running for a local law enforcement position. He is a wonderful, honest man and I hope he does win. I voted for him and he is running as a republican. So, I say "likely" instead of "never".

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
15. I would point out that, historically there have been fewer abortions
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:02 PM
Nov 2012

during Democratic administrations than during Republican ones.

This is a fact, and is due to the Dems' association with better economic times. People are more likely to get an abortion when they lack the financial resources to care adequately for a child.

Zoeisright

(8,339 posts)
18. Why don't you add something about all the babies Bush KILLED?
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:03 PM
Nov 2012

In America, by denying them health care and cutting funding for prenatal care, and overseas in his two illegal wars.

And by the way, you could also add that what a woman chooses to do with her body is none of that person's fucking business.

But maybe THAT is too curt.

Spazito

(50,260 posts)
20. I have a few suggestions...
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:11 PM
Nov 2012

I wouldn't put "All because he dislikes abortion as much as you do" but, instead, show her he has also supported it, he keeps changing his position depending on his audience, raise the how can you trust him? aspect. Here's some info you can provide her:

"He's had a number of positions on abortion. When he was running for governor in the 1990s, he said he would protect abortion rights. But now he has the opposite view." It's from this article:

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-18563_162-57530057/what-is-romneys-real-position-on-abortion/

Maybe make the point that the President has put into place, support for women re their health and planning for children (pre and postnatal care, family planning, etc) economic well being (equal pay for women - the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, and the health and support for their children (school lunch programs. These supports are what make for fewer abortions while Mitt Romney would cut all those programs making it harder for women to support their children which results in a higher number of abortions.

Maybe close by saying of the two candidates, President Obama will do more to lower the number of abortions than Romney will and the President, unlike Romney, hasn't taken multiple positions on these issues, he has been steadfast.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
25. I was so hoping you would pop in on this one.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:23 PM
Nov 2012

Thank you. Not planning to send this until tomorrow after canvass and will work on rewording tomorrow.

Spazito

(50,260 posts)
27. I am glad to help!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:33 PM
Nov 2012

I really like how you work to treat the person you are responding to with respect and want to use reasoned arguments to explain where you are coming from and why.

I want to echo what others have said, I absolutely love this statement by you:

"I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it." It's perfect and very powerful, imo.

kydo

(2,679 posts)
22. "I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it" WOW way cool
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:16 PM
Nov 2012

quote! That statement just described me! "I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it" I love this quote no really totally awesome!THANK YOU! umm can I use it?

kydo

(2,679 posts)
26. Thank you!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:31 PM
Nov 2012

for the welcome and the quote.

I've been a member since a few nights after Kerry lost in 04. I didn't know this place was here until the night Kerry lost, I found the link on Moore's site about 2am and its been home page ever since. I just don't post much.

But Damn thats a great quote!!

calimary

(81,193 posts)
42. No kidding! It's my favorite too! And even though you're not a new arrival, glad you're here, kydo!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:18 PM
Nov 2012

We need you! Time is short! And there's a LOT of great material generated and/or shared here on DU so we always have good responses, retorts, and counter-arguments as a result! I love it here, too. Found it a few months after Selection 2000, when I was HUGELY relieved to discover I actually wasn't alone in my feelings about the White House squatter - and not by a long shot, either. Everything else lent the complete opposite impression during that dreadful time. I, too, have considered this home ever since.

And yes. Damn, that's a great quote!

treestar

(82,383 posts)
28. If you want you could add the R tendency to get us into wars which kills
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:36 PM
Nov 2012

already-born people, some of them very young.

29. bravo
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:41 PM
Nov 2012

to you for even making the attempt!

Unfortunately, in the few discussions I've tried to have with people where I present reasoned, logical arguments supported by facts, I've had to throw up my hands in disgust and walk away due to their absolutely close-mindedness.

So again, bravo to you for making the attempt! Oh, and I agree with the re-frame already suggested.

calimary

(81,193 posts)
43. Welcome to DU, ChristianDemocratMom!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:20 PM
Nov 2012

I feel as though that could be another screen name for me! And don't you just love that quote - "I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it" ? It's gone into my favorite quotes collection for keeps! Glad you're here! We need you! Time is short and we don't have this won yet.







Now get to work.

46. thank you!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:31 PM
Nov 2012

I've been around, but am not usually in a position to be able to log in and comment.

I somehow doubt that this will really be over after Tuesday - I smell legal challenges.....

I'm a lone spot of blue in the red sea of Oklahoma - but I keep finding more and more of us!

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
30. It'd only substitute '...' for the '!' after 'Nothing has changed' as he sounds over-emotional.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:43 PM
Nov 2012

Although mention of Planned Parenthood and Obama's actions on that are the chief media stories, may be just like waiving a red flag to a bull. I've argued with men online who believe that bombing clinics and killing abortion doctors is okay to stop the crime they consider it to be.

I would point out the statistics on Planned Parenthood, that abortions are not funded by federal money at all. They are funded by private donations.

That PP is where women without access to regular medical care or lacking the money to pay for insurance, have to go to get regular health services, cancer screenings and treatment for other problems that others have the luxury of choosing their doctors.

And that Planned Parenthood is what it is says it says it is; families planning for parenthood. That they take care of many pregnancies to make sure they are brought to term. They are not in the business of killing babies as if it's some kind of sacrifice to Baal. They are about women being able to have babies, much more than the other way around.

And birth control has prevented more abortion than any other method.

Another take on this, as it looks as if the person has completely jumped the shark on the separation of church and state, so that may not work, is to go to the deeper religious and philosophical route.

Some people, and most mainline religions at one time did not oppose abortion, they just never thought about it until ti got into the media and the political groups entered and took over the church. This was a planned move, designed to make people hate the government, that gave them the right to worship freely. Most churches and Bible scholars held that a person was not considered alive until the first breath. I asked Jewish friends why did they support abortion, and they said it was because of their religion. That a child that has not taken a breath is not here yet.

With the advances in medicine, the line of viability has changed greatly. But Obama isn't trying to change that. And the Democratic position on abortion from Gore and many other was that 'we should keep abortion safe. legal and rare.' Emphasis on the word 'rare.' With a social safety net in place, prenatal care, less stigmatizing unplanned birth, more support for the mother and child after birth, especially if there are complications, there are less abortions. That is so in countries that provide all of those things, encouraging the mother and child without abusive income requirements or threats of taking help away, to reduce it.

That is not the same as here. Obama is trying to get that way of thinking approved in the USA, but not for his own glory or power, but because many of those countries also have more success in business because employers are not saddled with the burden of seeking, funding and managing health care.

Obama is doing what he is doing out of the Affordable Care Act to normalize the lives of millions of people who are being left out of family planning and ending up having babies that end up in dumpsters, become wards of the state, or they and their families end up on welfare. If the family is not really competent to provide a decent living for themselves, they are not protected. Those children are not protected from poverty.

The ACA is saving the lives of many new borns who insurance companies would not help, who were going to die. DU has many of these reports. The ACA has protect the pregnancies of women trying to give birth to wanted babies because of pre-conditions that the GOP thinks are like not having insurance for cars is the same thing in levels of responsibilities. It is not. Obamacare is about saving lives, not taking them. Obama has no interest in abortions being performed on anyone, has not objected to the laws against later term, viable births, etc. But he want them to succeed, not perish in the womb from preventable causes. Obama is about LIFE much more than the 'pro-life' group.

Okay, let's go from there to judgmental thinking. And TAXES. Does he support the ACA? Does he support paying for people of color (if he's white) who are the targets of demagoguery on the radio? Does he support paying for immigrants? Those are unborn babies those women carry. Does he support the right to life for those of other religions?

If he is a racist or xenophobe, and I'm doing the disgusting in playing The Devil's Advocate here, does he understand that the many people who have come here and are definitely pro-life will overwhelm his group?

As offensive at that is, since I've argues with these guys for years, that really puts the screw to the holier than thou attitude. they have. A lot of the pro-lifers got the push from such people as Pat Buchanan, and that is exactly what the pro-life movement was for some people in the eighties, worried about the white race being overwhelmed, so il-legalize abortion to make more 'desirable' white babies.

Another of the religious right is Pat Robertson. When China was enforcing their one-child-only policy, and FORCING abortions on women, even at the last minute killing them, Robertson said China should be free to do as they please because it's their nation. So here are a lot of contradictions and a lot of agendas that are really ugly being pushed, that have nothing to do with Christianity, but less moral reasons.

And who is to say, as some people have and I've mentioned, when is the child endowed with the soul from God, if that is his belief? I read a testimony from a woman who had gotten an test done to see how her fourth child was doing. It was determined that the child would be born with Down's and all that implies, from the best to the worst. The question in her family's mind, was would they agree to make a lifetime commitment to this unborn child, or should the soul be returned to God before birth, to be sent out again to live. In other words, aborted.

Does he support care for all the unborn's mothers, with his pocketbook, of people that he will never meet, never shake hands with, with children that he will never care about personally, or does he think he has the right to interfere with the lives of strangers to make them obey his religious beliefs?

Does he think that his religious beliefs should determine what government allows and pays for, when one day his religion may not be the dominant one? Does he realize that Sharia Law issued from that line of thinking?

And if a baby is aborted, is the sin on his head? Does the believe that America will fall from not allowing rights to others who do not believe as he does, forcing them to do what he will NOT be responsible for? Does he believe that the Israelis, RWers call the ultimate source of their religious authority, have legal abortion under many circumstances?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_Israel#Circumstances_under_which_abortion_is_legal

Well, I'm tired, too. Sorry for that really gross, disgusting stuff up there, but that's what I've had to argue with some of these folks. They really are more about being bullies than doing other people right, and often their demand that abortion be ended, does not come from a good place. I'm sure someone else could give more concise advice. I think that your message is written well.

Initech

(100,060 posts)
31. So Obama's a "baby killer" but nearly 250,000 died while Bush was in office.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:45 PM
Nov 2012

3,000 on 9/11, 2500 in Katrina, nearly 150,000 Iraqis (including women and children), 5,000+ troops, plus the untold deaths in the "forgotten war" of Afghanistan. But Obama is somehow a baby killer? Please.

RagAss

(13,832 posts)
32. Don't waste your energy.....
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:46 PM
Nov 2012

I tried for years with these demented screwballs. Now I just tell them to fuck off. My blood pressure is just fine since that decision.

LittlestStar

(224 posts)
33. I would attach this link.
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:46 PM
Nov 2012
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/2012/10/how-i-lost-faith-in-the-pro-life-movement.html

Somebody posted it yesterday. It spells out factually and with real data why the pro-choice movement does more to reduce abortions than the "pro-life" movement ever will.

calimary

(81,193 posts)
44. Welcome to DU, LittlestStar!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:27 PM
Nov 2012

Very much appreciate the link!
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/2012/10/how-i-lost-faith-in-the-pro-life-movement.html

Don't you love that quote: "I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it" ?

I'm putting everything in this post so when I add it to my journal, these lines and links are easier to find! Glad you're here! I appreciate the good read! We need you! Time is short! There's an election to win!






Now get to work.

FieryLocks

(110 posts)
38. ...
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:59 PM
Nov 2012

All I can say to people like this is "the abortion issue is all you have?"
Seriously, it is. They really have nothing else to go on, nothing else
to really wave in front of their follower's noses...except maybe the
gay rights issues and such, But when you really think of it republicans
have nothing else to tout or talk about because they have absolutely
ZERO accomplishments. And you are spot on about conservatives
doing nothing to really over turn Roe v Wade because they know it
would be suicide for them since the majority want it kept legal for a
woman to choose. Another thing that drives me nuts about these
forced-birthers is they are for the most part pro death penalty and
war...do those two not cause death?
The thing is republicans can name one thing or piece of legislation that
has benefited the masses of America and they know it so the so-called
'social issues' are all they can rely on to keep their little lemmings in
tow.

calimary

(81,193 posts)
45. Welcome to DU, FieryLocks! Wow! So many new DUers here!
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:29 PM
Nov 2012

As well as those who've not posted that often so they look like they're new. GLAD YOU ALL ARE HERE!!! We need every last one of you! There's still an election to win and some awfully relentless adversaries to defeat!!!!








Now get to work.

48. I think your response is excellent,
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:48 PM
Nov 2012

especially the part about your being a liberal because of your faith, not in spite of it. I can't help thinking that there are those that use the abortion issue as a "righteous" excuse to vote against our president. I do not mean to imply that this is the case with your friend. I was once involved with a pro-life group and left as it was not what I expected--I'll leave it at that. It seems to me that extremists are portraying it as a "must" not a "choice". Thank you for your insightful and heart felt words.

mikki35

(111 posts)
49. I must be in a different time zone...
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:52 PM
Nov 2012

I think your reply was very even-handed - I didn't read it as curt at all, and I, too, LOVE your line 'I am a liberal because of my faith, not in spite of it.'

BUT - here comes the disconnect for me - maybe I'm a little overly sensitive to this after months and months of BS being splattered all over da place - that simple little email fairly EXUDES condescending disrespect for YOU while blandly assuring you of having "the greatest respect for you." Starting with the "Nobama" and revving up with the "baby killer" BS and ending with the "I am so disapointed (sic)" handy bromide of the maternal stripe.

I assume you must value this friendship? Because, from what I can see, the sentiments are not being returned. This is not the kind of language or tone I would use with a 'friend.' This was rude, condescending, dismissive, accusatory. It's actually quite amazing how much of that stuff is packed into such a short, abrupt, CURT little email...

Just my 2 cents - feel free to ignore!!!

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
50. Abortion rates do not change when abortion is illegal
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 10:59 PM
Nov 2012
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/10/12/world/12abortion.html?_r=0

A comprehensive global study of abortion has concluded that abortion rates are similar in countries where it is legal and those where it is not, suggesting that outlawing the procedure does little to deter women seeking it.

Moreover, the researchers found that abortion was safe in countries where it was legal, but dangerous in countries where it was outlawed and performed clandestinely. Globally, abortion accounts for 13 percent of women’s deaths during pregnancy and childbirth, and there are 31 abortions for every 100 live births, the study said.

The results of the study, a collaboration between scientists from the World Health Organization in Geneva and the Guttmacher Institute in New York, a reproductive rights group, are being published Friday in the journal Lancet.

“We now have a global picture of induced abortion in the world, covering both countries where it is legal and countries where laws are very restrictive,” Dr. Paul Van Look, director of the W.H.O. Department of Reproductive Health and Research, said in a telephone interview. “What we see is that the law does not influence a woman’s decision to have an abortion. If there’s an unplanned pregnancy, it does not matter if the law is restrictive or liberal.”


No matter what someone's motivation for being anti-choice - they are not doing anything good to oppose it. Instead, they are causing harm.

The only effective way to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies is to have birth control widely and easily available to any male or female who is capable of creating a pregnancy. That means some religious people have a quandry because they really want to control people's behavior, rather than deal with a social issue. That's when their religion has stepped over the line into authoritarianism.

Send your relative to this blog post from someone who used to be anti-choice - and you should read it too. It's provides excellent ways to reason with religious believers.

If the issue is that they want women to be punished for having abortions, in spite of all the rational reasons to keep abortion safe, rare and legal, then the problem is their hatred of women who have experiences other than their own.

People who truly care about ethics know there are "do the least harm" situations in life and most anyone can find an example from their own life. When religion is a substitute for ethics - then it's not a very ethical religion, is it?

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/2012/10/how-i-lost-faith-in-the-pro-life-movement.html
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