Bereavement Discussion Forum - Democratic Underground Forums

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Dealing with the aftermath of a death 13 Uben Apr 2012 Sep 2013 8 57479

Bereavement Group Archives Link 1 orleans Feb 2012 Dec 2011 1 36255

My wife's death. First time I'm posting. [View all] 178 kairos12 Saturday 5 hrs ago 310 4954

My mom died today. [View all] 95 SleeplessinSoCal Feb 2024 17 hrs ago 172 5068

I'm in MN for my mother's funeral [View all] 109 TygrBright Dec 2023 Yesterday 87 5931

I wanted to take a moment and 1 kairos12 Saturday Saturday 11 233

This day has sucked. 9 irisblue May 12 May 12 11 692

If one more person sends me a 'heavenly birthday' thing this week I swear by any all Divine ones 6 irisblue May 1 May 2 4 884

This song tears me apart. Regrettably our marriage wasn't as God pleasing 6 sprinkleeninow Apr 25 Apr 25 7 1134

Yesterday I lerned my best friend had passed. [View all] 53 CanonRay Apr 18 Apr 19 200 4344

Sitting here thinking of my wife as Duncan pup cuddles his niece. 10 Duncanpup Apr 18 Apr 18 94 2105

I'm going to go and find out via FB whether an acquaintance made it through the night. They are good friends w another.. 10 electric_blue68 Apr 17 Apr 17 10 1226

21 years, down the drain, 5 kozar Apr 10 Apr 17 12 1717

Husband's anniversary of his repose. 23 sprinkleeninow Mar 23 Apr 7 55 2011

My husband would be 77 today 14 Marthe48 Feb 2024 Mar 18 12 1518

Today is my baby brothers 61st birthday. He, my SIL & their grand kids are at a waterpark hotel 4 irisblue Mar 16 Mar 16 15 1225

Two friends of mine have passed. 13 shenmue Mar 9 Mar 10 24 1542

Today, I remember my dear friend Andy. 18 CaliforniaPeggy Mar 7 Mar 8 52 1880

My uncle died this evening. 37 LoisB Feb 2024 Feb 2024 40 2011

January 12th, February 12th, and December 12th. 2 3catwoman3 Feb 2024 Feb 2024 10 1075

Today is my friend's graveside service 6 Beatlelvr Feb 2024 Feb 2024 12 1178

"Looking for my brother's ghost." 2 shrike3 Jan 2024 Jan 2024 13 1606

Well, it's been 7 years 12 Marthe48 Jan 2024 Jan 2024 16 1548

I dreamed my Mom made me a latte. 9 irisblue Jan 2024 Jan 2024 8 3315

A friend of mine posted this on facebook as a help for people who are depressed. 5 CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2024 Jan 2024 32 2741

One month ago today, my dear friend AndyS died. 17 CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2024 Jan 2024 49 1910

I'm disabled and live with my brother and his wife but Thursday he died. Right now I dont know 20 cstanleytech Jan 2024 Jan 2024 30 3282

a friend sent me this article - good for spousal/partner loss 3 imavoter Jan 2024 Jan 2024 9 1281

my late momeam in on equinox and left this earth on dec 21st. 23 years years ago . misss u mom terribly 4 AllaN01Bear Dec 2023 Dec 2023 6 1848

I decided to make my Moms chicken soup today 7 irisblue Dec 2023 Dec 2023 8 1247

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Memories of Elizabeth and this Italian restaurant,I'm at her Moms in Jersey. 9 Duncanpup Dec 2023 Dec 2023 42 3295

Memories of intimacy with Liz 6 Duncanpup Dec 2023 Dec 2023 42 2018

Grief impacted my memory. Update Wed 29 Nov 5 irisblue Nov 2023 Nov 2023 1 2460

Thanksgiving + Christmas without people 5 DoBW Nov 2023 Nov 2023 19 1708

Lost my only Brother on 21 November, 2023 30 ProudMNDemocrat Nov 2023 Nov 2023 67 3381

Sister in law friend kept asking me out. [View all] 56 Duncanpup Nov 2023 Nov 2023 138 7454

Thank you DU Community for your kind words of comfort and Support 12 ProudMNDemocrat Nov 2023 Nov 2023 41 3388

Watching Schindler's List last night was not a good idea 5 irisblue Nov 2023 Nov 2023 2 1325

I have appointments to update my will and to prepay my cremation expenses 10 irisblue Nov 2023 Nov 2023 11 2859

"You can't carry the weight for both of you" 2 RSherman Nov 2023 Nov 2023 8 1381

Sunday morning I say goodbye to the love of my life [View all] 184 alfredo Nov 2023 Nov 2023 324 21290

Thinking of Elizabeth the kids and the Boog this morning smiling great memories. 14 Duncanpup Oct 2023 Oct 2023 49 3129

This is not a good day for me 13 irisblue Oct 2023 Oct 2023 8 1532

I wrote thank you notes to the staff & the nurses who covered my mom 2 irisblue Oct 2023 Oct 2023 8 2477

A week ago I posted that my sister had passed of cancer. 12 BoomaofBandM Jun 2023 Oct 2023 74 5765

Well it's been more than 6 months since Mom passed... 9 FirstLight Nov 2022 Oct 2023 13 3022

There is already drama & angst over clearing out my Moms' apartment 21 irisblue Oct 2023 Oct 2023 55 4285

Made my friend day yesterday she was happy. 25 Duncanpup Oct 2023 Oct 2023 122 4759

Need suggestions... 17 imavoter Sep 2023 Sep 2023 12 1563

Does anyone else call your friend's phone? 13 RSherman Jul 2023 Sep 2023 9 3310

Dear DUers, I have Heartbreaking and shocking [View all] 223 Cha Aug 2023 Sep 2023 353 22790

She isn't 43 years old today. [View all] 104 barbtries Jul 2023 Sep 2023 184 9872

He used to sing while we did the dishes. 21 murielm99 Sep 2023 Sep 2023 117 5217

Nightly visits from Rebecca Alynn 8 RSherman Apr 2023 Sep 2023 17 3462

My twin sister died yesterday. [View all] 152 babylonsister Jul 2023 Sep 2023 314 12893

Humor so at Grief group last night I mentioned. I cannot watch inside with Jen Psaki 5 Duncanpup Jul 2023 Jul 2023 25 3918

Laughing this morning thinking of Liz not sad just smiling. I found portrait pictures of daughters. 12 Duncanpup Jul 2023 Jul 2023 56 4454

My little sister died yesterday. She was 58. Pancreatic cancer. I turned 65 the day before that. 47 BoomaofBandM May 2023 Jul 2023 125 9738

There is light, 9 kozar Jun 2023 Jun 2023 18 1403

For Scott 12 RSherman May 2023 May 2023 32 2216

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Ex girlfriend not allowing me to attend my friend's scattering of ashes 11 RSherman May 2023 May 2023 15 4019

Happy Mothers Day 2 barbtries May 2023 May 2023 14 955

Liz always had a plan thinking of my wife smiling 8 Duncanpup May 2023 May 2023 37 3296

Anyone ever listen to the song ( I need you ) by Lynard skynard 6 Duncanpup May 2023 May 2023 8 3800

My brother died 2 years ago. Miss him whenever see something interesting 21 applegrove May 2023 May 2023 21 3109

Sat down with the attorneys over Liz. 4 Duncanpup May 2023 May 2023 29 2466

I met with attorneys yesterday over my wife. [View all] 68 Duncanpup Apr 2023 May 2023 211 9642

Heard a young lady singing along with store music Pat benatar we belong 9 Duncanpup Jan 2023 May 2023 24 4580

The Saddest Noise 7 RSherman Mar 2023 May 2023 11 1886

Pets are family. 19 murielm99 Apr 2023 Apr 2023 73 2640

Just read this description about grief. 13 Duncanpup Apr 2023 Apr 2023 20 3488

Dreamt of my wife last night I woke up smiling. 25 Duncanpup Mar 2023 Mar 2023 85 5949

My friend died and his "friends" are evil 38 RSherman Mar 2023 Mar 2023 125 8173

Not yet bereavement. But what I say to my cousin who was just diagnosed with 10 3Hotdogs Mar 2023 Mar 2023 3 22902

This message was self-deleted by its author 13 CountAllVotes Aug 2022 Mar 2023 7 3103

Grief grabbed me today. I found an old notebook from my years old class in "writing the self." 6 CTyankee Feb 2023 Mar 2023 9 4141

Grief spasms. 46 barbtries Jan 2023 Feb 2023 57 2688

Anniversaries suck 10 Colorado Liberal Nov 2022 Feb 2023 46 2965

I'm thankful finally, 6 kozar Feb 2023 Feb 2023 16 2487

At at his minute 3 kozar Jan 2023 Feb 2023 7 2058

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